Tools to Bolster Your Mood Mental Health Dr Andrew Huberman The Best Motivationa
00:00[Music] Every single day you are given a choice. Every single day you are given a choice. The world may feel chaotic. Your The world may feel chaotic. Your The world may feel chaotic. Your emotions might spiral. But science has emotions might spiral. But science has emotions might spiral. But science has shown and life proves that you are not shown and life proves that you are not shown and life proves that you are not helpless. There are tools, simple yet helpless. There are tools, simple yet helpless. There are tools, simple yet powerful, that you can use. Tools that powerful, that you can use. Tools that powerful, that you can use. Tools that don't just help you survive the day, but don't just help you survive the day, but don't just help you survive the day, but reclaim control over your mind, your reclaim control over your mind, your reclaim control over your mind, your mood, and your mission. Start with the mood, and your mission. Start with the mood, and your mission. Start with the sun. That first light of morning is not sun. That first light of morning is not sun. That first light of morning is not just a sunrise. It's a biological just a sunrise. It's a biological just a sunrise. It's a biological trigger, a command to your body. Wake trigger, a command to your body. Wake trigger, a command to your body. Wake up. Align. Be strong. When you step up. Align. Be strong. When you step up. Align. Be strong. When you step outside and let that light hit your outside and let that light hit your outside and let that light hit your eyes, you're setting your brain's clock. eyes, you're setting your brain's clock. eyes, you're setting your brain's clock. You're telling every cell in your body You're telling every cell in your body You're telling every cell in your body that this is a new day, a day that's that this is a new day, a day that's that this is a new day, a day that's yours to shape. Then there's the cold. yours to shape. Then there's the cold. yours to shape. Then there's the cold. It's not easy. It never is. But when you It's not easy. It never is. But when you It's not easy. It never is. But when you lean into discomfort, a cold shower, an lean into discomfort, a cold shower, an lean into discomfort, a cold shower, an icy plunge, your brain learns something icy plunge, your brain learns something icy plunge, your brain learns something profound. I can handle this. And not profound. I can handle this. And not profound. I can handle this. And not just the cold, anything. The surge of just the cold, anything. The surge of just the cold, anything. The surge of dopamine that follows isn't pleasure. dopamine that follows isn't pleasure. dopamine that follows isn't pleasure. Its power, its potential. Move your Its power, its potential. Move your Its power, its potential. Move your body. Not because someone told you to, body. Not because someone told you to,
01:00body. Not because someone told you to, but because your brain is built for but because your brain is built for but because your brain is built for motion. Every step, every sprint, every motion. Every step, every sprint, every motion. Every step, every sprint, every stretch carves new pathways in your stretch carves new pathways in your stretch carves new pathways in your mind. Strengthening not just muscle, but mind. Strengthening not just muscle, but mind. Strengthening not just muscle, but resilience. The more you move, the more resilience. The more you move, the more resilience. The more you move, the more you feel alive. And when your body is you feel alive. And when your body is you feel alive. And when your body is alive, your mind follows. Breathe not alive, your mind follows. Breathe not alive, your mind follows. Breathe not like a robot, but like a warrior. Deep, like a robot, but like a warrior. Deep, like a robot, but like a warrior. Deep, controlled through your nose. And when controlled through your nose. And when controlled through your nose. And when stress threatens to drown you, take that stress threatens to drown you, take that stress threatens to drown you, take that double inhale through your nose and a double inhale through your nose and a double inhale through your nose and a long sigh out. That's not just air. long sigh out. That's not just air. long sigh out. That's not just air. That's control. That's your nervous That's control. That's your nervous That's control. That's your nervous system listening to you. And then sleep, system listening to you. And then sleep, system listening to you. And then sleep, not optional, not something to get by not optional, not something to get by not optional, not something to get by with. Sleep is where your brain with. Sleep is where your brain with. Sleep is where your brain rebuilds, where your emotions reset, rebuilds, where your emotions reset, rebuilds, where your emotions reset, where your mental clarity is reborn. where your mental clarity is reborn. where your mental clarity is reborn. Prioritize it, protect it, and it will Prioritize it, protect it, and it will Prioritize it, protect it, and it will repay you with clarity, strength, and repay you with clarity, strength, and repay you with clarity, strength, and peace. Finally, watch how you speak to peace. Finally, watch how you speak to peace. Finally, watch how you speak to yourself. Your inner voice is the yourself. Your inner voice is the yourself. Your inner voice is the loudest voice you'll ever hear. So, loudest voice you'll ever hear. So, loudest voice you'll ever hear. So, train it, challenge it, shape it. Don't train it, challenge it, shape it. Don't train it, challenge it, shape it. Don't let your thoughts run wild and ruin your let your thoughts run wild and ruin your let your thoughts run wild and ruin your day. Journal, reflect, be mindful, turn day. Journal, reflect, be mindful, turn day. Journal, reflect, be mindful, turn the critic into a coach. Because if your the critic into a coach. Because if your the critic into a coach. Because if your mind believes in you, there's nothing
02:00mind believes in you, there's nothing mind believes in you, there's nothing that can stop you. You don't need to that can stop you. You don't need to that can stop you. You don't need to wait for a breakthrough. You don't need wait for a breakthrough. You don't need wait for a breakthrough. You don't need to wait for motivation to magically to wait for motivation to magically to wait for motivation to magically appear. You have the tools. They're appear. You have the tools. They're appear. You have the tools. They're within you, around you, and available within you, around you, and available within you, around you, and available every single day. Use them, master them, every single day. Use them, master them, every single day. Use them, master them, and become the architect of your own and become the architect of your own and become the architect of your own mental health. Because the truth is mental health. Because the truth is mental health. Because the truth is simple. Mood is not luck. It's built. simple. Mood is not luck. It's built. simple. Mood is not luck. It's built. Mental strength is not born. It's Mental strength is not born. It's Mental strength is not born. It's trained. And the best version of you is trained. And the best version of you is trained. And the best version of you is not a myth. It's a decision. Start not a myth. It's a decision. Start not a myth. It's a decision. Start today. The tools are already in your today. The tools are already in your today. The tools are already in your hands. Getting sunlight early in the day hands. Getting sunlight early in the day hands. Getting sunlight early in the day might seem like a small habit, almost might seem like a small habit, almost might seem like a small habit, almost too simple to be powerful. But beneath too simple to be powerful. But beneath too simple to be powerful. But beneath its simplicity, lies one of the most its simplicity, lies one of the most its simplicity, lies one of the most profound biological levers for enhancing profound biological levers for enhancing profound biological levers for enhancing mental health, energy, focus, and mental health, energy, focus, and mental health, energy, focus, and emotional well-being. This daily emotional well-being. This daily emotional well-being. This daily exposure to natural light, especially exposure to natural light, especially exposure to natural light, especially within the first hour of waking, acts as within the first hour of waking, acts as within the first hour of waking, acts as a master signal for your brain and body, a master signal for your brain and body, a master signal for your brain and body, setting in motion an entire symphony of setting in motion an entire symphony of setting in motion an entire symphony of internal rhythms that govern how you internal rhythms that govern how you internal rhythms that govern how you feel, how you think, and how you act. feel, how you think, and how you act. feel, how you think, and how you act. When you step outside and allow sunlight When you step outside and allow sunlight When you step outside and allow sunlight to enter your eyes without sunglasses to enter your eyes without sunglasses to enter your eyes without sunglasses through direct or indirect daylight, you
03:00through direct or indirect daylight, you through direct or indirect daylight, you are not just observing your are not just observing your are not just observing your surroundings. You are triggering surroundings. You are triggering surroundings. You are triggering specialized neurons in your retina specialized neurons in your retina specialized neurons in your retina called intrinsically photosensitive called intrinsically photosensitive called intrinsically photosensitive retinal ganglen cells. These cells are retinal ganglen cells. These cells are retinal ganglen cells. These cells are uniquely sensitive to the blue light uniquely sensitive to the blue light uniquely sensitive to the blue light wavelengths found in the early morning wavelengths found in the early morning wavelengths found in the early morning sun. They send a powerful signal to a sun. They send a powerful signal to a sun. They send a powerful signal to a tiny but vital structure in the brain tiny but vital structure in the brain tiny but vital structure in the brain called the supermatic nucleus asn called the supermatic nucleus asn called the supermatic nucleus asn located in the hypothalamus. The located in the hypothalamus. The located in the hypothalamus. The structure is the body's master clock and structure is the body's master clock and structure is the body's master clock and when it receives this light signal, it when it receives this light signal, it when it receives this light signal, it synchronizes the body's internal synchronizes the body's internal synchronizes the body's internal circadian rhythm. The 24-hour cycle that circadian rhythm. The 24-hour cycle that circadian rhythm. The 24-hour cycle that regulates nearly every biological regulates nearly every biological regulates nearly every biological process. This light exposure in the process. This light exposure in the process. This light exposure in the morning sets off a cascade of hormonal morning sets off a cascade of hormonal morning sets off a cascade of hormonal and neurological events. One of the and neurological events. One of the and neurological events. One of the first is the suppression of melatonin, first is the suppression of melatonin, first is the suppression of melatonin, the hormone that promotes sleep. the hormone that promotes sleep. the hormone that promotes sleep. Melatonin levels should naturally fall Melatonin levels should naturally fall Melatonin levels should naturally fall in the morning and sunlight helps in the morning and sunlight helps in the morning and sunlight helps accelerate that drop. At the same time, accelerate that drop. At the same time, accelerate that drop. At the same time, light boosts the production of cortisol, light boosts the production of cortisol, light boosts the production of cortisol, a stress hormone, yes, but also an a stress hormone, yes, but also an a stress hormone, yes, but also an energypromoting and mood, enhancing energypromoting and mood, enhancing energypromoting and mood, enhancing hormone when released in the right hormone when released in the right hormone when released in the right amounts and at the right time of day. A
04:00amounts and at the right time of day. A amounts and at the right time of day. A healthy rhythmic release of cortisol in healthy rhythmic release of cortisol in healthy rhythmic release of cortisol in the morning sets the tone for alertness, the morning sets the tone for alertness, the morning sets the tone for alertness, motivation, and mood stability motivation, and mood stability motivation, and mood stability throughout the day. But the benefits throughout the day. But the benefits throughout the day. But the benefits don't end there. Early sunlight exposure don't end there. Early sunlight exposure don't end there. Early sunlight exposure also regulates the timing of many other also regulates the timing of many other also regulates the timing of many other neurotransmitters such as dopamine and neurotransmitters such as dopamine and neurotransmitters such as dopamine and serotonin which play critical roles in serotonin which play critical roles in serotonin which play critical roles in motivation, mood regulation, and motivation, mood regulation, and motivation, mood regulation, and emotional balance. Serotonin in emotional balance. Serotonin in emotional balance. Serotonin in particular is closely tied to feelings particular is closely tied to feelings particular is closely tied to feelings of well-being and calm. It is also the of well-being and calm. It is also the of well-being and calm. It is also the precursor to melatonin, which means the precursor to melatonin, which means the precursor to melatonin, which means the morning light you receive doesn't just morning light you receive doesn't just morning light you receive doesn't just set you up for a good day. It sets you set you up for a good day. It sets you set you up for a good day. It sets you up for better sleep that night. A well up for better sleep that night. A well up for better sleep that night. A well timed light signal in the morning leads timed light signal in the morning leads timed light signal in the morning leads to a well timed release of melatonin to a well timed release of melatonin to a well timed release of melatonin about 14 to 16 hours later helping you about 14 to 16 hours later helping you about 14 to 16 hours later helping you fall asleep more easily and sleep more fall asleep more easily and sleep more fall asleep more easily and sleep more deeply. Think of your circadian rhythm deeply. Think of your circadian rhythm deeply. Think of your circadian rhythm like the conductor of an orchestra. like the conductor of an orchestra. like the conductor of an orchestra. Every system in your body, your immune Every system in your body, your immune Every system in your body, your immune response, your digestion, your cognitive response, your digestion, your cognitive response, your digestion, your cognitive clarity, your emotional resilience clarity, your emotional resilience clarity, your emotional resilience follows the cues of this conductor and follows the cues of this conductor and follows the cues of this conductor and the conductor takes its signal from the conductor takes its signal from the conductor takes its signal from light. When that signal is clear and light. When that signal is clear and light. When that signal is clear and consistent, the entire system runs in
05:00consistent, the entire system runs in consistent, the entire system runs in harmony. When that signal is absent or harmony. When that signal is absent or harmony. When that signal is absent or confused, chaos follows. Irregular light confused, chaos follows. Irregular light confused, chaos follows. Irregular light exposure, especially if it's delayed or exposure, especially if it's delayed or exposure, especially if it's delayed or inconsistent, leads to circadian inconsistent, leads to circadian inconsistent, leads to circadian misalignment. This misalignment is misalignment. This misalignment is misalignment. This misalignment is associated with increased risk for associated with increased risk for associated with increased risk for depression, anxiety, insomnia, fatigue, depression, anxiety, insomnia, fatigue, depression, anxiety, insomnia, fatigue, and even metabolic disorders. Now, and even metabolic disorders. Now, and even metabolic disorders. Now, consider how modern life often goes consider how modern life often goes consider how modern life often goes against this biological truth. Many against this biological truth. Many against this biological truth. Many people wake up and immediately expose people wake up and immediately expose people wake up and immediately expose themselves to artificial indoor light, themselves to artificial indoor light, themselves to artificial indoor light, which is far less potent than sunlight. which is far less potent than sunlight. which is far less potent than sunlight. They scroll through phones in dim rooms, They scroll through phones in dim rooms, They scroll through phones in dim rooms, skip the walk outside, and delay real skip the walk outside, and delay real skip the walk outside, and delay real light exposure until hours after waking. light exposure until hours after waking. light exposure until hours after waking. The result is a confused internal clock The result is a confused internal clock The result is a confused internal clock leading to sluggish mornings, poor leading to sluggish mornings, poor leading to sluggish mornings, poor focus, emotional instability, and focus, emotional instability, and focus, emotional instability, and disrupted sleep. Even worse, excessive disrupted sleep. Even worse, excessive disrupted sleep. Even worse, excessive artificial light in the evening, artificial light in the evening, artificial light in the evening, especially from screens, tricks the especially from screens, tricks the especially from screens, tricks the brain into thinking it's still daytime, brain into thinking it's still daytime, brain into thinking it's still daytime, delaying melatonin release, and making delaying melatonin release, and making delaying melatonin release, and making it harder to fall asleep on time. This it harder to fall asleep on time. This it harder to fall asleep on time. This leads to a vicious cycle of poor sleep, leads to a vicious cycle of poor sleep, leads to a vicious cycle of poor sleep, low energy, and mood swings. But the fix low energy, and mood swings. But the fix low energy, and mood swings. But the fix is free, accessible, and powerful. is free, accessible, and powerful. is free, accessible, and powerful. Simply step outside shortly after
06:00Simply step outside shortly after Simply step outside shortly after waking. Aim for 5 10 minutes of morning waking. Aim for 5 10 minutes of morning waking. Aim for 5 10 minutes of morning sunlight on clear days and up to 20 30 sunlight on clear days and up to 20 30 sunlight on clear days and up to 20 30 minutes on cloudy days. You don't need minutes on cloudy days. You don't need minutes on cloudy days. You don't need to stare at the sun. Just being outside, to stare at the sun. Just being outside, to stare at the sun. Just being outside, letting natural light reach your eyes letting natural light reach your eyes letting natural light reach your eyes indirectly is enough. If you can combine indirectly is enough. If you can combine indirectly is enough. If you can combine this with movement, like a morning walk, this with movement, like a morning walk, this with movement, like a morning walk, even better. You amplify the benefits by even better. You amplify the benefits by even better. You amplify the benefits by reinforcing wakefulness, activating your reinforcing wakefulness, activating your reinforcing wakefulness, activating your body and anchoring your mind in the body and anchoring your mind in the body and anchoring your mind in the present. This single act, getting present. This single act, getting present. This single act, getting sunlight early, can shift everything. It sunlight early, can shift everything. It sunlight early, can shift everything. It brings clarity to your thoughts, brings clarity to your thoughts, brings clarity to your thoughts, stability to your emotions, and energy stability to your emotions, and energy stability to your emotions, and energy to your actions. It aligns you with the to your actions. It aligns you with the to your actions. It aligns you with the rhythm of the earth, the rhythm your rhythm of the earth, the rhythm your rhythm of the earth, the rhythm your brain was designed for. Over time, this brain was designed for. Over time, this brain was designed for. Over time, this habit compounds. You begin to sleep more habit compounds. You begin to sleep more habit compounds. You begin to sleep more deeply, wake more easily, and feel more deeply, wake more easily, and feel more deeply, wake more easily, and feel more emotionally grounded. You begin to feel emotionally grounded. You begin to feel emotionally grounded. You begin to feel like yourself again, clear, focused, and like yourself again, clear, focused, and like yourself again, clear, focused, and strong. And what makes this tool so strong. And what makes this tool so strong. And what makes this tool so remarkable is how deceptively easy it is remarkable is how deceptively easy it is remarkable is how deceptively easy it is to dismiss. In a world full of complex to dismiss. In a world full of complex to dismiss. In a world full of complex solutions, medications, and hacks, it's solutions, medications, and hacks, it's solutions, medications, and hacks, it's tempting to overlook the basics. But tempting to overlook the basics. But tempting to overlook the basics. But sometimes the most powerful sometimes the most powerful sometimes the most powerful interventions are the ones that return interventions are the ones that return
07:00interventions are the ones that return us to nature. Morning sunlight is not us to nature. Morning sunlight is not us to nature. Morning sunlight is not just light. It's information. It's a just light. It's information. It's a just light. It's information. It's a biological signal that says, "You are biological signal that says, "You are biological signal that says, "You are awake. You are alive. You are ready." So awake. You are alive. You are ready." So awake. You are alive. You are ready." So make it a ritual. Let the sun be your make it a ritual. Let the sun be your make it a ritual. Let the sun be your ally. Stand in its light and allow it to ally. Stand in its light and allow it to ally. Stand in its light and allow it to recalibrate your mind, energize your recalibrate your mind, energize your recalibrate your mind, energize your body, and reset your soul. Not every day body, and reset your soul. Not every day body, and reset your soul. Not every day will be easy, but this daily practice will be easy, but this daily practice will be easy, but this daily practice will become your anchor. When your mood will become your anchor. When your mood will become your anchor. When your mood waivers, when your mind feels clouded, waivers, when your mind feels clouded, waivers, when your mind feels clouded, when life feels heavy, step outside and when life feels heavy, step outside and when life feels heavy, step outside and let the light lead you back to balance. let the light lead you back to balance. let the light lead you back to balance. Deliberate cold exposure is one of the Deliberate cold exposure is one of the Deliberate cold exposure is one of the most underestimated yet powerful tools most underestimated yet powerful tools most underestimated yet powerful tools available to elevate mood, increase available to elevate mood, increase available to elevate mood, increase alertness, and fortify mental alertness, and fortify mental alertness, and fortify mental resilience. It goes far beyond physical resilience. It goes far beyond physical resilience. It goes far beyond physical toughness. When done properly and toughness. When done properly and toughness. When done properly and consistently, exposing the body to cold consistently, exposing the body to cold consistently, exposing the body to cold activates a deep biological response activates a deep biological response activates a deep biological response that directly influences the brain and that directly influences the brain and that directly influences the brain and nervous system. This practice taps into nervous system. This practice taps into nervous system. This practice taps into ancient mechanisms wired into our ancient mechanisms wired into our ancient mechanisms wired into our survival systems. Mechanisms that, when survival systems. Mechanisms that, when survival systems. Mechanisms that, when activated regularly, begin to rewire how activated regularly, begin to rewire how activated regularly, begin to rewire how we respond to stress, how we feel we respond to stress, how we feel we respond to stress, how we feel throughout the day, and how motivated we throughout the day, and how motivated we throughout the day, and how motivated we are to take action. When you enter a
08:00are to take action. When you enter a are to take action. When you enter a cold environment, such as a cold shower cold environment, such as a cold shower cold environment, such as a cold shower or an ice bath, the body reacts or an ice bath, the body reacts or an ice bath, the body reacts immediately. Your skin sensors detect immediately. Your skin sensors detect immediately. Your skin sensors detect the drop in temperature sending rapid the drop in temperature sending rapid the drop in temperature sending rapid signals to the brain. The sympathetic signals to the brain. The sympathetic signals to the brain. The sympathetic nervous system is activated. This is the nervous system is activated. This is the nervous system is activated. This is the fight or flight system. Your heart rate fight or flight system. Your heart rate fight or flight system. Your heart rate increases, blood vessels constrict, and increases, blood vessels constrict, and increases, blood vessels constrict, and adrenaline is released. But unlike adrenaline is released. But unlike adrenaline is released. But unlike uncontrolled stress, this is deliberate. uncontrolled stress, this is deliberate. uncontrolled stress, this is deliberate. You are choosing to activate stress in a You are choosing to activate stress in a You are choosing to activate stress in a controlled setting. And that choice controlled setting. And that choice controlled setting. And that choice makes all the difference. Almost makes all the difference. Almost makes all the difference. Almost instantly, the brain begins to release instantly, the brain begins to release instantly, the brain begins to release norepinephrine, a chemical that enhances norepinephrine, a chemical that enhances norepinephrine, a chemical that enhances attention, sharpens focus, and boosts attention, sharpens focus, and boosts attention, sharpens focus, and boosts mood. But what makes cold exposure truly mood. But what makes cold exposure truly mood. But what makes cold exposure truly unique is its impact on dopamine, a unique is its impact on dopamine, a unique is its impact on dopamine, a molecule commonly associated with molecule commonly associated with molecule commonly associated with motivation, drive, and pleasure. motivation, drive, and pleasure. motivation, drive, and pleasure. Scientific studies have shown that after Scientific studies have shown that after Scientific studies have shown that after even a brief session of cold exposure, even a brief session of cold exposure, even a brief session of cold exposure, dopamine levels can increase by up to dopamine levels can increase by up to dopamine levels can increase by up to 250%. And more importantly, these 250%. And more importantly, these 250%. And more importantly, these elevated levels remain high for hours. elevated levels remain high for hours. elevated levels remain high for hours. This isn't the quick, fleeting dopamine This isn't the quick, fleeting dopamine This isn't the quick, fleeting dopamine spike you get from scrolling social spike you get from scrolling social spike you get from scrolling social media or eating sugar. This is a media or eating sugar. This is a media or eating sugar. This is a sustained rise that fuels energy, sustained rise that fuels energy, sustained rise that fuels energy, determination, and mental clarity
09:00determination, and mental clarity determination, and mental clarity throughout the day. That elevation in throughout the day. That elevation in throughout the day. That elevation in dopamine doesn't just make you feel dopamine doesn't just make you feel dopamine doesn't just make you feel good. It makes you want to take action. good. It makes you want to take action. good. It makes you want to take action. It shifts your psychology. Cold exposure It shifts your psychology. Cold exposure It shifts your psychology. Cold exposure becomes a physical gateway into a mental becomes a physical gateway into a mental becomes a physical gateway into a mental transformation. You start to understand transformation. You start to understand transformation. You start to understand that the mind is more adaptable than it that the mind is more adaptable than it that the mind is more adaptable than it appears. The very act of enduring the appears. The very act of enduring the appears. The very act of enduring the cold, of staying present in discomfort cold, of staying present in discomfort cold, of staying present in discomfort sends a powerful message to the brain. I sends a powerful message to the brain. I sends a powerful message to the brain. I can do hard things. This message begins can do hard things. This message begins can do hard things. This message begins to reshape how you deal with other to reshape how you deal with other to reshape how you deal with other stressors in life. difficult stressors in life. difficult stressors in life. difficult conversations, setbacks, anxiety, they conversations, setbacks, anxiety, they conversations, setbacks, anxiety, they start to feel more manageable. Why? start to feel more manageable. Why? start to feel more manageable. Why? Because you've trained your nervous Because you've trained your nervous Because you've trained your nervous system to stay calm under pressure. system to stay calm under pressure. system to stay calm under pressure. There is a deep connection between There is a deep connection between There is a deep connection between voluntary stress and resilience. When voluntary stress and resilience. When voluntary stress and resilience. When stress is chosen, it becomes training. stress is chosen, it becomes training. stress is chosen, it becomes training. It doesn't break you. It builds you. And It doesn't break you. It builds you. And It doesn't break you. It builds you. And cold exposure is one of the most cold exposure is one of the most cold exposure is one of the most immediate and accessible ways to train immediate and accessible ways to train immediate and accessible ways to train this. It doesn't require a gym, this. It doesn't require a gym, this. It doesn't require a gym, equipment, or money. All it takes is a equipment, or money. All it takes is a equipment, or money. All it takes is a few minutes of commitment and the few minutes of commitment and the few minutes of commitment and the willingness to embrace discomfort. Even willingness to embrace discomfort. Even willingness to embrace discomfort. Even a 30 secondond cold shower can shift a 30 secondond cold shower can shift a 30 secondond cold shower can shift your entire state physically, mentally,
10:00your entire state physically, mentally, your entire state physically, mentally, and emotionally. Another profound and emotionally. Another profound and emotionally. Another profound benefit is how cold exposure improves benefit is how cold exposure improves benefit is how cold exposure improves your relationship with fear. There's your relationship with fear. There's your relationship with fear. There's always hesitation before stepping into always hesitation before stepping into always hesitation before stepping into the cold. Your mind tries to talk you the cold. Your mind tries to talk you the cold. Your mind tries to talk you out of it, but every time you step in out of it, but every time you step in out of it, but every time you step in anyway, you prove to yourself that fear anyway, you prove to yourself that fear anyway, you prove to yourself that fear does not have the final say. Over time, does not have the final say. Over time, does not have the final say. Over time, that courage carries over into other that courage carries over into other that courage carries over into other areas of life. You hesitate less, you areas of life. You hesitate less, you areas of life. You hesitate less, you act more. You stop negotiating with your act more. You stop negotiating with your act more. You stop negotiating with your excuses and start moving through excuses and start moving through excuses and start moving through resistance. Beyond mood and resilience, resistance. Beyond mood and resilience, resistance. Beyond mood and resilience, cold exposure also enhances the brain's cold exposure also enhances the brain's cold exposure also enhances the brain's ability to regulate emotions. Regular ability to regulate emotions. Regular ability to regulate emotions. Regular exposure leads to increased activity in exposure leads to increased activity in exposure leads to increased activity in the prefrontal cortex, the area the prefrontal cortex, the area the prefrontal cortex, the area responsible for executive function, responsible for executive function, responsible for executive function, willpower, and emotional regulation. At willpower, and emotional regulation. At willpower, and emotional regulation. At the same time, it teaches the amygdala, the same time, it teaches the amygdala, the same time, it teaches the amygdala, the brain's fear center, to stay calm in the brain's fear center, to stay calm in the brain's fear center, to stay calm in the face of discomfort. In other words, the face of discomfort. In other words, the face of discomfort. In other words, it trains you not just to survive it trains you not just to survive it trains you not just to survive stress, but to master it. It also stress, but to master it. It also stress, but to master it. It also influences sleep and recovery. Though influences sleep and recovery. Though influences sleep and recovery. Though though cold exposure stimulates though cold exposure stimulates though cold exposure stimulates alertness during the day, when done alertness during the day, when done alertness during the day, when done earlier in the day, it contributes to earlier in the day, it contributes to earlier in the day, it contributes to deeper rest at night. It resets the
11:00deeper rest at night. It resets the deeper rest at night. It resets the nervous system and encourages nervous system and encourages nervous system and encourages parasympathetic activation, rest, and parasympathetic activation, rest, and parasympathetic activation, rest, and digest in the hours that follow. So, not digest in the hours that follow. So, not digest in the hours that follow. So, not only are you more focused during the only are you more focused during the only are you more focused during the day, you also sleep more deeply at day, you also sleep more deeply at day, you also sleep more deeply at night, creating a powerful cycle of night, creating a powerful cycle of night, creating a powerful cycle of energy and restoration. The key to energy and restoration. The key to energy and restoration. The key to success with cold exposure is success with cold exposure is success with cold exposure is consistency and progression. Start consistency and progression. Start consistency and progression. Start small. Even turning your shower cold for small. Even turning your shower cold for small. Even turning your shower cold for 15 to 30 seconds at the end can be 15 to 30 seconds at the end can be 15 to 30 seconds at the end can be effective. Over time, you can increase effective. Over time, you can increase effective. Over time, you can increase duration or experiment with colder duration or experiment with colder duration or experiment with colder temperatures. The goal is not to suffer, temperatures. The goal is not to suffer, temperatures. The goal is not to suffer, but to build tolerance. You want to but to build tolerance. You want to but to build tolerance. You want to challenge the nervous system, not shock challenge the nervous system, not shock challenge the nervous system, not shock it into panic. Controlled exposure it into panic. Controlled exposure it into panic. Controlled exposure followed by deliberate calm breathing followed by deliberate calm breathing followed by deliberate calm breathing teaches the body how to find peace teaches the body how to find peace teaches the body how to find peace within discomfort. That is where the within discomfort. That is where the within discomfort. That is where the magic happens. It's important to magic happens. It's important to magic happens. It's important to understand that cold exposure is not a understand that cold exposure is not a understand that cold exposure is not a cure all. It is a tool, a powerful one. cure all. It is a tool, a powerful one. cure all. It is a tool, a powerful one. But it works best when combined with But it works best when combined with But it works best when combined with other pillars of mental health like other pillars of mental health like other pillars of mental health like sleep, sunlight, movement, and sleep, sunlight, movement, and sleep, sunlight, movement, and nutrition. But few tools offer such an nutrition. But few tools offer such an nutrition. But few tools offer such an immediate shift in state as cold does. immediate shift in state as cold does. immediate shift in state as cold does. Within minutes, your physiology Within minutes, your physiology Within minutes, your physiology transforms. Your mind sharpens. Your
12:00transforms. Your mind sharpens. Your transforms. Your mind sharpens. Your confidence grows. And over time, that confidence grows. And over time, that confidence grows. And over time, that confidence becomes unshakable. When life confidence becomes unshakable. When life confidence becomes unshakable. When life feels heavy, when you lack motivation, feels heavy, when you lack motivation, feels heavy, when you lack motivation, when your emotions spiral, remember when your emotions spiral, remember when your emotions spiral, remember this. You have the power to change your this. You have the power to change your this. You have the power to change your state. Not through force, but through state. Not through force, but through state. Not through force, but through action. The cold won't lie to you. It action. The cold won't lie to you. It action. The cold won't lie to you. It won't flatter you. It will challenge won't flatter you. It will challenge won't flatter you. It will challenge you. But in that challenge, you will you. But in that challenge, you will you. But in that challenge, you will find clarity, energy, and the reminder find clarity, energy, and the reminder find clarity, energy, and the reminder that you are stronger than you think. that you are stronger than you think. that you are stronger than you think. The very thing you want, focus, drive, The very thing you want, focus, drive, The very thing you want, focus, drive, strength, is on the other side of strength, is on the other side of strength, is on the other side of discomfort. And all it takes is one discomfort. And all it takes is one discomfort. And all it takes is one decision step in. Daily movement and decision step in. Daily movement and decision step in. Daily movement and exercise are among the most powerful and exercise are among the most powerful and exercise are among the most powerful and accessible tools to transform mental accessible tools to transform mental accessible tools to transform mental health and elevate emotional well-being. health and elevate emotional well-being. health and elevate emotional well-being. It's not just about building muscle or It's not just about building muscle or It's not just about building muscle or burning calories. It's about what burning calories. It's about what burning calories. It's about what consistent movement does to your brain. consistent movement does to your brain. consistent movement does to your brain. How it changes your mindset, your How it changes your mindset, your How it changes your mindset, your emotional stability, your energy levels, emotional stability, your energy levels, emotional stability, your energy levels, and your ability to navigate the and your ability to navigate the and your ability to navigate the challenges of life. The human body was challenges of life. The human body was challenges of life. The human body was designed to move. The brain, which often designed to move. The brain, which often designed to move. The brain, which often feels like a separate entity, is deeply feels like a separate entity, is deeply feels like a separate entity, is deeply connected to the body. Every step you connected to the body. Every step you connected to the body. Every step you take, every weight you lift, every
13:00take, every weight you lift, every take, every weight you lift, every stretch you perform sends feedback to stretch you perform sends feedback to stretch you perform sends feedback to your nervous system, your endocrine your nervous system, your endocrine your nervous system, your endocrine system, and your cognitive centers. This system, and your cognitive centers. This system, and your cognitive centers. This feedback is not passive. It's chemical, feedback is not passive. It's chemical, feedback is not passive. It's chemical, electrical, and structural. It literally electrical, and structural. It literally electrical, and structural. It literally shapes who you are and how you feel. shapes who you are and how you feel. shapes who you are and how you feel. When you engage in physical activity, When you engage in physical activity, When you engage in physical activity, even for just 20 to 30 minutes a day, even for just 20 to 30 minutes a day, even for just 20 to 30 minutes a day, you stimulate the release of powerful you stimulate the release of powerful you stimulate the release of powerful neurochemicals. Endorphins, serotonin, neurochemicals. Endorphins, serotonin, neurochemicals. Endorphins, serotonin, dopamine, and brain derived neurotrphic dopamine, and brain derived neurotrphic dopamine, and brain derived neurotrphic factor, BDNF. These molecules are like factor, BDNF. These molecules are like factor, BDNF. These molecules are like fuel for your brain. Endorphins reduce fuel for your brain. Endorphins reduce fuel for your brain. Endorphins reduce pain and create a sense of euphoria. pain and create a sense of euphoria. pain and create a sense of euphoria. Serotonin stabilizes mood and reduces Serotonin stabilizes mood and reduces Serotonin stabilizes mood and reduces anxiety. Dopamine drives motivation, anxiety. Dopamine drives motivation, anxiety. Dopamine drives motivation, focus, and reward. BDNF helps grow new focus, and reward. BDNF helps grow new focus, and reward. BDNF helps grow new neurons and strengthens the connections neurons and strengthens the connections neurons and strengthens the connections between brain cells, improving learning, between brain cells, improving learning, between brain cells, improving learning, memory, and adaptability. That chemical memory, and adaptability. That chemical memory, and adaptability. That chemical cocktail is not just a temporary high. cocktail is not just a temporary high. cocktail is not just a temporary high. It's a long-term upgrade over time. It's a long-term upgrade over time. It's a long-term upgrade over time. Regular movement creates more efficient Regular movement creates more efficient Regular movement creates more efficient brain circuits that help you manage brain circuits that help you manage brain circuits that help you manage stress, stay mentally sharp, and stress, stay mentally sharp, and stress, stay mentally sharp, and maintain emotional balance. But the maintain emotional balance. But the maintain emotional balance. But the benefits go deeper than brain chemistry. benefits go deeper than brain chemistry. benefits go deeper than brain chemistry. Movement is a statement of agency. Every
14:00Movement is a statement of agency. Every Movement is a statement of agency. Every time you move your body deliberately, time you move your body deliberately, time you move your body deliberately, you reinforce a core message. I am in you reinforce a core message. I am in you reinforce a core message. I am in control. In a world that often feels control. In a world that often feels control. In a world that often feels overwhelming, movement returns power to overwhelming, movement returns power to overwhelming, movement returns power to you. It creates momentum, and momentum you. It creates momentum, and momentum you. It creates momentum, and momentum builds confidence. You begin to trust builds confidence. You begin to trust builds confidence. You begin to trust yourself more. You begin to push back yourself more. You begin to push back yourself more. You begin to push back against negative thoughts, not with against negative thoughts, not with against negative thoughts, not with words, but with action. Movement is words, but with action. Movement is words, but with action. Movement is proof that you are not stagnant, that proof that you are not stagnant, that proof that you are not stagnant, that you are not stuck, that you are capable you are not stuck, that you are capable you are not stuck, that you are capable of change, direction, and growth. of change, direction, and growth. of change, direction, and growth. Regular exercise also helps regulate the Regular exercise also helps regulate the Regular exercise also helps regulate the autonomic nervous system, the part of autonomic nervous system, the part of autonomic nervous system, the part of your body responsible for stress and your body responsible for stress and your body responsible for stress and recovery. When you train your body recovery. When you train your body recovery. When you train your body through physical effort, you become more through physical effort, you become more through physical effort, you become more efficient at moving between sympathetic efficient at moving between sympathetic efficient at moving between sympathetic Z alert and parasympathetic cym states. Z alert and parasympathetic cym states. Z alert and parasympathetic cym states. This flexibility is the foundation of This flexibility is the foundation of This flexibility is the foundation of emotional resilience. You don't just emotional resilience. You don't just emotional resilience. You don't just feel good after a workout, you feel feel good after a workout, you feel feel good after a workout, you feel grounded. You become less reactive to grounded. You become less reactive to grounded. You become less reactive to stress. Your threshold for overwhelm stress. Your threshold for overwhelm stress. Your threshold for overwhelm rises. That's because your body has rises. That's because your body has rises. That's because your body has learned how to manage physical stress. learned how to manage physical stress. learned how to manage physical stress. And in doing so, your brain has learned And in doing so, your brain has learned And in doing so, your brain has learned how to manage emotional stress, too. And how to manage emotional stress, too. And how to manage emotional stress, too. And this doesn't mean you need to become an
15:00this doesn't mean you need to become an this doesn't mean you need to become an athlete or commit to grueling workouts. athlete or commit to grueling workouts. athlete or commit to grueling workouts. The most powerful results often come The most powerful results often come The most powerful results often come from consistency with simple routines. A from consistency with simple routines. A from consistency with simple routines. A brisk 20 minute walk, a few rounds of brisk 20 minute walk, a few rounds of brisk 20 minute walk, a few rounds of bodyweight exercises, a light jog or a bodyweight exercises, a light jog or a bodyweight exercises, a light jog or a yoga session. What matters is that you yoga session. What matters is that you yoga session. What matters is that you are consistent. That you make movement a are consistent. That you make movement a are consistent. That you make movement a daily ritual, a non-negotiable part of daily ritual, a non-negotiable part of daily ritual, a non-negotiable part of your life. Because the truth is your your life. Because the truth is your your life. Because the truth is your mental health depends on it. Movement is mental health depends on it. Movement is mental health depends on it. Movement is not just fitness, it's medicine. And the not just fitness, it's medicine. And the not just fitness, it's medicine. And the side effects are all positive. Another side effects are all positive. Another side effects are all positive. Another remarkable aspect of physical movement remarkable aspect of physical movement remarkable aspect of physical movement is its ability to shift your mental is its ability to shift your mental is its ability to shift your mental state almost instantly. When you feel state almost instantly. When you feel state almost instantly. When you feel stuck, depressed, anxious, or foggy, stuck, depressed, anxious, or foggy, stuck, depressed, anxious, or foggy, your thoughts can seem like quicksand. your thoughts can seem like quicksand. your thoughts can seem like quicksand. Trying to think your way out rarely Trying to think your way out rarely Trying to think your way out rarely works. But movement breaks the loop. It works. But movement breaks the loop. It works. But movement breaks the loop. It bypasses the mind and goes straight to bypasses the mind and goes straight to bypasses the mind and goes straight to the body where transformation begins. As the body where transformation begins. As the body where transformation begins. As your body moves, your thoughts shift. your body moves, your thoughts shift. your body moves, your thoughts shift. Your perspective widens. Your energy Your perspective widens. Your energy Your perspective widens. Your energy returns. It's not magic. It's biology. returns. It's not magic. It's biology. returns. It's not magic. It's biology. And it works every single time. Movement And it works every single time. Movement And it works every single time. Movement also helps regulate sleep, another also helps regulate sleep, another also helps regulate sleep, another cornerstone of mental health. When you cornerstone of mental health. When you cornerstone of mental health. When you move during the day, especially in the
16:00move during the day, especially in the move during the day, especially in the morning or early afternoon, your body morning or early afternoon, your body morning or early afternoon, your body temperature rises, and that rise helps temperature rises, and that rise helps temperature rises, and that rise helps set your internal clock. Later in the set your internal clock. Later in the set your internal clock. Later in the day, when your body temperature drops, day, when your body temperature drops, day, when your body temperature drops, it signals your brain that it's time to it signals your brain that it's time to it signals your brain that it's time to sleep. The result is deeper, more sleep. The result is deeper, more sleep. The result is deeper, more restorative sleep, which in turn restorative sleep, which in turn restorative sleep, which in turn improves mood, focus, and emotional improves mood, focus, and emotional improves mood, focus, and emotional control the following day. It becomes a control the following day. It becomes a control the following day. It becomes a cycle of growth and healing, all cycle of growth and healing, all cycle of growth and healing, all initiated by the simple act of moving. initiated by the simple act of moving. initiated by the simple act of moving. Socially, movement can be a bridge to Socially, movement can be a bridge to Socially, movement can be a bridge to connection. Group workouts, walks with a connection. Group workouts, walks with a connection. Group workouts, walks with a friend, or joining a class can provide a friend, or joining a class can provide a friend, or joining a class can provide a sense of belonging, accountability, and sense of belonging, accountability, and sense of belonging, accountability, and shared purpose. Isolation often fuels shared purpose. Isolation often fuels shared purpose. Isolation often fuels mental health struggles. Movement brings mental health struggles. Movement brings mental health struggles. Movement brings people together in ways that words alone people together in ways that words alone people together in ways that words alone cannot. It unites people in effort, in cannot. It unites people in effort, in cannot. It unites people in effort, in progress, in the pursuit of becoming progress, in the pursuit of becoming progress, in the pursuit of becoming better. And even when done alone, better. And even when done alone, better. And even when done alone, movement builds a relationship with movement builds a relationship with movement builds a relationship with yourself. It teaches self-discipline, yourself. It teaches self-discipline, yourself. It teaches self-discipline, self-respect, and self-compassion. It self-respect, and self-compassion. It self-respect, and self-compassion. It becomes a quiet form of self-love. becomes a quiet form of self-love. becomes a quiet form of self-love. expressed through repetition, sweat, and expressed through repetition, sweat, and expressed through repetition, sweat, and commitment. Over time, consistent commitment. Over time, consistent commitment. Over time, consistent movement creates identity level change. movement creates identity level change. movement creates identity level change. You stop seeing yourself as someone who
17:00You stop seeing yourself as someone who You stop seeing yourself as someone who trades to be healthy and start seeing trades to be healthy and start seeing trades to be healthy and start seeing yourself as someone who is strong, yourself as someone who is strong, yourself as someone who is strong, capable, and disciplined. That shift in capable, and disciplined. That shift in capable, and disciplined. That shift in identity is what makes long-term mental identity is what makes long-term mental identity is what makes long-term mental health sustainable. Because you're no health sustainable. Because you're no health sustainable. Because you're no longer trying to change who you are. You longer trying to change who you are. You longer trying to change who you are. You are simply living out who you've become. are simply living out who you've become. are simply living out who you've become. Someone who values health, who handles Someone who values health, who handles Someone who values health, who handles stress, who moves through life with stress, who moves through life with stress, who moves through life with purpose and strength. purpose and strength. purpose and strength. The best part is that this power has The best part is that this power has The best part is that this power has always been within you. You don't need always been within you. You don't need always been within you. You don't need permission. You don't need a perfect permission. You don't need a perfect permission. You don't need a perfect plan. You just need to move. Every time plan. You just need to move. Every time plan. You just need to move. Every time you do, you are changing your brain, you do, you are changing your brain, you do, you are changing your brain, healing your emotions, and strengthening healing your emotions, and strengthening healing your emotions, and strengthening your mind. You're choosing to be the one your mind. You're choosing to be the one your mind. You're choosing to be the one who takes control, who faces challenge, who takes control, who faces challenge, who takes control, who faces challenge, and who rises every day, not because and who rises every day, not because and who rises every day, not because it's easy, but because it's worth it. it's easy, but because it's worth it. it's easy, but because it's worth it. When everything feels like too much, When everything feels like too much, When everything feels like too much, when your thoughts become heavy, when when your thoughts become heavy, when when your thoughts become heavy, when your emotions feel overwhelming, your emotions feel overwhelming, your emotions feel overwhelming, remember this truth movement is the remember this truth movement is the remember this truth movement is the switch. It is the reset button for your switch. It is the reset button for your switch. It is the reset button for your mind. It is the spark that reignites mind. It is the spark that reignites mind. It is the spark that reignites your fire. Use it. Trust it. Make it your fire. Use it. Trust it. Make it your fire. Use it. Trust it. Make it your daily act of strength and watches your daily act of strength and watches your daily act of strength and watches your body, your brain, and your life
18:00your body, your brain, and your life your body, your brain, and your life begin to transform. One step, one begin to transform. One step, one begin to transform. One step, one breath, one rep at a time. Breathing is breath, one rep at a time. Breathing is breath, one rep at a time. Breathing is one of the few bodily functions that one of the few bodily functions that one of the few bodily functions that bridges the conscious and unconscious bridges the conscious and unconscious bridges the conscious and unconscious mind. It's always happening moment by mind. It's always happening moment by mind. It's always happening moment by moment. Yet, we rarely give it moment. Yet, we rarely give it moment. Yet, we rarely give it attention. But when we do, it becomes attention. But when we do, it becomes attention. But when we do, it becomes one of the most powerful tools available one of the most powerful tools available one of the most powerful tools available for regulating emotions, calming for regulating emotions, calming for regulating emotions, calming anxiety, improving focus, and restoring anxiety, improving focus, and restoring anxiety, improving focus, and restoring balance to the nervous system. Breathing balance to the nervous system. Breathing balance to the nervous system. Breathing patterns are directly linked to the patterns are directly linked to the patterns are directly linked to the state of our nervous system. When you're state of our nervous system. When you're state of our nervous system. When you're anxious, your breath becomes shallow, anxious, your breath becomes shallow, anxious, your breath becomes shallow, fast, and erratic. When you're calm, fast, and erratic. When you're calm, fast, and erratic. When you're calm, your breath is deep, slow, and rhythmic. your breath is deep, slow, and rhythmic. your breath is deep, slow, and rhythmic. What's profound is that the connection What's profound is that the connection What's profound is that the connection is twoway. Your emotional state affects is twoway. Your emotional state affects is twoway. Your emotional state affects your breathing, but your breathing can your breathing, but your breathing can your breathing, but your breathing can also affect your emotional state. This also affect your emotional state. This also affect your emotional state. This means that by deliberately changing how means that by deliberately changing how means that by deliberately changing how you breathe, you can change how you feel you breathe, you can change how you feel you breathe, you can change how you feel physiologically and mentally. One of the physiologically and mentally. One of the physiologically and mentally. One of the most effective breathing techniques for most effective breathing techniques for most effective breathing techniques for calming the nervous system is known as calming the nervous system is known as calming the nervous system is known as the physiological sigh. This isn't some the physiological sigh. This isn't some the physiological sigh. This isn't some trendy trick. It's something your body trendy trick. It's something your body trendy trick. It's something your body naturally does during stress, before
19:00naturally does during stress, before naturally does during stress, before sleep, or even during crying. It sleep, or even during crying. It sleep, or even during crying. It consists of two inhales through the consists of two inhales through the consists of two inhales through the nose, followed by one long extended nose, followed by one long extended nose, followed by one long extended exhale through the mouth. The first exhale through the mouth. The first exhale through the mouth. The first inhale fills the lungs partially. The inhale fills the lungs partially. The inhale fills the lungs partially. The second one shorter and quicker, tops second one shorter and quicker, tops second one shorter and quicker, tops them off and reopens collapsed alvioli, them off and reopens collapsed alvioli, them off and reopens collapsed alvioli, the tiny air sacks in the lungs. And the the tiny air sacks in the lungs. And the the tiny air sacks in the lungs. And the slow exhale offloads carbon dioxide and slow exhale offloads carbon dioxide and slow exhale offloads carbon dioxide and calms the system. Just one to three calms the system. Just one to three calms the system. Just one to three rounds of this breathing pattern can rounds of this breathing pattern can rounds of this breathing pattern can shift you from a stressed, panicked shift you from a stressed, panicked shift you from a stressed, panicked state into a calmer, more grounded one. state into a calmer, more grounded one. state into a calmer, more grounded one. It's not guesswork. It's a It's not guesswork. It's a It's not guesswork. It's a neurobiological reset. It signals your neurobiological reset. It signals your neurobiological reset. It signals your brain that you're safe, that the threat brain that you're safe, that the threat brain that you're safe, that the threat has passed, and that calm can return. has passed, and that calm can return. has passed, and that calm can return. Breathing through your nose rather than Breathing through your nose rather than Breathing through your nose rather than your mouth plays a critical role in this your mouth plays a critical role in this your mouth plays a critical role in this process. Nassle breathing warms, process. Nassle breathing warms, process. Nassle breathing warms, filters, and regulates the air you take filters, and regulates the air you take filters, and regulates the air you take in. But it also influences how oxygen is in. But it also influences how oxygen is in. But it also influences how oxygen is delivered to your body. It supports delivered to your body. It supports delivered to your body. It supports better oxygen carbon dioxide balance, better oxygen carbon dioxide balance, better oxygen carbon dioxide balance, increases nitric oxide production and increases nitric oxide production and increases nitric oxide production and supports healthy brain function. When supports healthy brain function. When supports healthy brain function. When you breathe through your mouth you breathe through your mouth you breathe through your mouth habitually, especially in a fast or habitually, especially in a fast or habitually, especially in a fast or shallow way, you reinforce a stress shallow way, you reinforce a stress shallow way, you reinforce a stress state. But nasal breathing tells your
20:00state. But nasal breathing tells your state. But nasal breathing tells your body, "Slow down, be present, stay body, "Slow down, be present, stay body, "Slow down, be present, stay calm." Deliberate breath control also calm." Deliberate breath control also calm." Deliberate breath control also strengthens your ability to focus. strengthens your ability to focus. strengthens your ability to focus. Attention and breath are tightly Attention and breath are tightly Attention and breath are tightly connected in the brain. Try this. Focus connected in the brain. Try this. Focus connected in the brain. Try this. Focus your attention on your breath for even your attention on your breath for even your attention on your breath for even just 60 seconds. Count each inhale and just 60 seconds. Count each inhale and just 60 seconds. Count each inhale and exhale. You'll notice how the mind exhale. You'll notice how the mind exhale. You'll notice how the mind begins to settle. It's not that all your begins to settle. It's not that all your begins to settle. It's not that all your thoughts disappear. They won't. But you thoughts disappear. They won't. But you thoughts disappear. They won't. But you become less entangled in them. The become less entangled in them. The become less entangled in them. The breath becomes an anchor in the present. breath becomes an anchor in the present. breath becomes an anchor in the present. This is especially powerful in moments This is especially powerful in moments This is especially powerful in moments of emotional overwhelm. Whether you're of emotional overwhelm. Whether you're of emotional overwhelm. Whether you're feeling anxious, frustrated, angry, or feeling anxious, frustrated, angry, or feeling anxious, frustrated, angry, or lost, returning to the breath gives you lost, returning to the breath gives you lost, returning to the breath gives you a sense of control. It shifts you from a sense of control. It shifts you from a sense of control. It shifts you from being inside the chaos to observing it being inside the chaos to observing it being inside the chaos to observing it from a place of stability. Over time, from a place of stability. Over time, from a place of stability. Over time, this practice trains the prefrontal this practice trains the prefrontal this practice trains the prefrontal cortex, the area of the brain cortex, the area of the brain cortex, the area of the brain responsible for self-awareness, responsible for self-awareness, responsible for self-awareness, emotional regulation, and decision emotional regulation, and decision emotional regulation, and decision making. Breath work strengthens the making. Breath work strengthens the making. Breath work strengthens the bridge between the rational brain and bridge between the rational brain and bridge between the rational brain and the emotional brain. Instead of reacting the emotional brain. Instead of reacting the emotional brain. Instead of reacting impulsively, you begin to respond impulsively, you begin to respond impulsively, you begin to respond thoughtfully. Instead of spiraling in thoughtfully. Instead of spiraling in thoughtfully. Instead of spiraling in panic, you find steadiness. Instead of
21:00panic, you find steadiness. Instead of panic, you find steadiness. Instead of drowning in thoughts, you return to drowning in thoughts, you return to drowning in thoughts, you return to presence. Breath work can be used in presence. Breath work can be used in presence. Breath work can be used in different ways depending on your goal. different ways depending on your goal. different ways depending on your goal. For energy and alertness, techniques For energy and alertness, techniques For energy and alertness, techniques like box breathing or cyclical faster like box breathing or cyclical faster like box breathing or cyclical faster paced breathing can elevate your state. paced breathing can elevate your state. paced breathing can elevate your state. For calm and recovery, slow For calm and recovery, slow For calm and recovery, slow diaphragmatic breathing or physiological diaphragmatic breathing or physiological diaphragmatic breathing or physiological size are more effective. The beauty is size are more effective. The beauty is size are more effective. The beauty is in the flexibility. Your breath becomes in the flexibility. Your breath becomes in the flexibility. Your breath becomes a tool you can shape, a dial you can a tool you can shape, a dial you can a tool you can shape, a dial you can turn to shift your mental and emotional turn to shift your mental and emotional turn to shift your mental and emotional state at will. Incorporating breath work state at will. Incorporating breath work state at will. Incorporating breath work into your daily life doesn't need to be into your daily life doesn't need to be into your daily life doesn't need to be complicated or timeconsuming. Even one complicated or timeconsuming. Even one complicated or timeconsuming. Even one to two minutes of conscious breathing to two minutes of conscious breathing to two minutes of conscious breathing during transitions, between tasks, during transitions, between tasks, during transitions, between tasks, before meetings, after waking, or before before meetings, after waking, or before before meetings, after waking, or before bed can have measurable effects on your bed can have measurable effects on your bed can have measurable effects on your nervous system. You don't have to wait nervous system. You don't have to wait nervous system. You don't have to wait until you feel overwhelmed to use it. until you feel overwhelmed to use it. until you feel overwhelmed to use it. Instead, use it as a way to stay Instead, use it as a way to stay Instead, use it as a way to stay balanced, to build emotional endurance, balanced, to build emotional endurance, balanced, to build emotional endurance, and to return to your center throughout and to return to your center throughout and to return to your center throughout the day. There's also a deeper level to the day. There's also a deeper level to the day. There's also a deeper level to this practice. Conscious breathing this practice. Conscious breathing this practice. Conscious breathing cultivates mindfulness. When you pay cultivates mindfulness. When you pay cultivates mindfulness. When you pay attention to your breath, you become attention to your breath, you become attention to your breath, you become more present and presence is healing. So
22:00more present and presence is healing. So more present and presence is healing. So much of our mental distress comes from much of our mental distress comes from much of our mental distress comes from being lost in thoughts about the past or being lost in thoughts about the past or being lost in thoughts about the past or worries about the future. But the breath worries about the future. But the breath worries about the future. But the breath only exists now in this moment. When you only exists now in this moment. When you only exists now in this moment. When you connect to it, you return to what is connect to it, you return to what is connect to it, you return to what is real. You come back to your body, your real. You come back to your body, your real. You come back to your body, your senses, your awareness. And in that senses, your awareness. And in that senses, your awareness. And in that space, clarity emerges. Breath work also space, clarity emerges. Breath work also space, clarity emerges. Breath work also reconnects you with your body's reconnects you with your body's reconnects you with your body's intelligence. So often we live in our intelligence. So often we live in our intelligence. So often we live in our heads disconnected from how our body heads disconnected from how our body heads disconnected from how our body feels. We ignore tension, suppress feels. We ignore tension, suppress feels. We ignore tension, suppress emotion, and override our needs. But emotion, and override our needs. But emotion, and override our needs. But breath is embodied. It lives in the breath is embodied. It lives in the breath is embodied. It lives in the chest, the belly, the lungs. It teaches chest, the belly, the lungs. It teaches chest, the belly, the lungs. It teaches you to listen again, to feel where you to listen again, to feel where you to listen again, to feel where stress lives in the body, to notice how stress lives in the body, to notice how stress lives in the body, to notice how emotions affect your physiology, and to emotions affect your physiology, and to emotions affect your physiology, and to release what you've been holding on to. release what you've been holding on to. release what you've been holding on to. Breath is the bridge between the mind Breath is the bridge between the mind Breath is the bridge between the mind and the body. And when you strengthen and the body. And when you strengthen and the body. And when you strengthen that bridge, healing happens. In moments that bridge, healing happens. In moments that bridge, healing happens. In moments of chaos, breath becomes a sanctuary. of chaos, breath becomes a sanctuary. of chaos, breath becomes a sanctuary. When the mind races, when your heart When the mind races, when your heart When the mind races, when your heart pounds, when life feels like it's too pounds, when life feels like it's too pounds, when life feels like it's too much, you always have access to this one much, you always have access to this one much, you always have access to this one tool. It costs nothing. It requires no tool. It costs nothing. It requires no tool. It costs nothing. It requires no permission. And yet, it has the power to
23:00permission. And yet, it has the power to permission. And yet, it has the power to reset your state in real time. That's reset your state in real time. That's reset your state in real time. That's not poetic. That's biology. Breathing is not poetic. That's biology. Breathing is not poetic. That's biology. Breathing is not just a survival function. It's a not just a survival function. It's a not just a survival function. It's a language, one that speaks directly to language, one that speaks directly to language, one that speaks directly to your nervous system, your brain, and your nervous system, your brain, and your nervous system, your brain, and your emotions. The more fluent you your emotions. The more fluent you your emotions. The more fluent you become in that language, the more power become in that language, the more power become in that language, the more power you have to shape how you feel, how you you have to shape how you feel, how you you have to shape how you feel, how you act, and how you live. So the next time act, and how you live. So the next time act, and how you live. So the next time you feel off balance, uncertain or you feel off balance, uncertain or you feel off balance, uncertain or overwhelmed, don't try to think your way overwhelmed, don't try to think your way overwhelmed, don't try to think your way out. Breathe your way back in. You are out. Breathe your way back in. You are out. Breathe your way back in. You are not at the mercy of your emotions. You not at the mercy of your emotions. You not at the mercy of your emotions. You are not stuck. You have the breath. Use are not stuck. You have the breath. Use are not stuck. You have the breath. Use it. Let it guide you back to calm, back it. Let it guide you back to calm, back it. Let it guide you back to calm, back to clarity, and back to yourself. Sleep to clarity, and back to yourself. Sleep to clarity, and back to yourself. Sleep is not just rest. It is restoration. It is not just rest. It is restoration. It is not just rest. It is restoration. It is repair. It is the foundation upon is repair. It is the foundation upon is repair. It is the foundation upon which all other aspects of mental and which all other aspects of mental and which all other aspects of mental and physical health are built. When you physical health are built. When you physical health are built. When you sleep, your body is not shutting down. sleep, your body is not shutting down. sleep, your body is not shutting down. It is actively working, processing, It is actively working, processing, It is actively working, processing, healing, and resetting systems that are healing, and resetting systems that are healing, and resetting systems that are vital to your emotional balance, vital to your emotional balance, vital to your emotional balance, cognitive clarity, and psychological cognitive clarity, and psychological cognitive clarity, and psychological resilience. The brain, while asleep, resilience. The brain, while asleep, resilience. The brain, while asleep, does some of its most important work. It does some of its most important work. It does some of its most important work. It clears waste, consolidates memories, clears waste, consolidates memories, clears waste, consolidates memories, resets neurotransmitter levels, and
24:00resets neurotransmitter levels, and resets neurotransmitter levels, and recalibrates the circuits involved in recalibrates the circuits involved in recalibrates the circuits involved in emotional regulation, decision-making, emotional regulation, decision-making, emotional regulation, decision-making, and self-control. Without deep, and self-control. Without deep, and self-control. Without deep, highquality sleep, all of your efforts highquality sleep, all of your efforts highquality sleep, all of your efforts to improve your mood or mental state to improve your mood or mental state to improve your mood or mental state become significantly harder. One of the become significantly harder. One of the become significantly harder. One of the most important things that happens most important things that happens most important things that happens during sleep is the recalibration of the during sleep is the recalibration of the during sleep is the recalibration of the brain's chemistry. Neurotransmitters brain's chemistry. Neurotransmitters brain's chemistry. Neurotransmitters like serotonin, dopamine, and like serotonin, dopamine, and like serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine, which are responsible norepinephrine, which are responsible norepinephrine, which are responsible for mood, focus, and motivation, are for mood, focus, and motivation, are for mood, focus, and motivation, are replenished overnight. Without this replenished overnight. Without this replenished overnight. Without this replenishment, you wake up foggy, replenishment, you wake up foggy, replenishment, you wake up foggy, irritable, and emotionally fragile. Your irritable, and emotionally fragile. Your irritable, and emotionally fragile. Your ability to regulate emotions diminishes. ability to regulate emotions diminishes. ability to regulate emotions diminishes. Your stress response becomes overactive, Your stress response becomes overactive, Your stress response becomes overactive, and even minor challenges can feel and even minor challenges can feel and even minor challenges can feel overwhelming. Poor sleep doesn't just overwhelming. Poor sleep doesn't just overwhelming. Poor sleep doesn't just make you tired. It makes you more make you tired. It makes you more make you tired. It makes you more reactive, less patient, more prone to reactive, less patient, more prone to reactive, less patient, more prone to anxiety, and less able to engage with anxiety, and less able to engage with anxiety, and less able to engage with life's demands. Sleep also plays a life's demands. Sleep also plays a life's demands. Sleep also plays a crucial role in regulating cortisol, the crucial role in regulating cortisol, the crucial role in regulating cortisol, the hormone involved in stress, cortisol hormone involved in stress, cortisol hormone involved in stress, cortisol should naturally peak in the morning to should naturally peak in the morning to should naturally peak in the morning to help you feel alert and motivated, and help you feel alert and motivated, and help you feel alert and motivated, and it should taper off by evening so that it should taper off by evening so that it should taper off by evening so that your body can wind down. But when sleep
25:00your body can wind down. But when sleep your body can wind down. But when sleep is disrupted, either in quality or is disrupted, either in quality or is disrupted, either in quality or timing, this rhythm becomes distorted. timing, this rhythm becomes distorted. timing, this rhythm becomes distorted. Cortisol levels remain elevated at Cortisol levels remain elevated at Cortisol levels remain elevated at night, making it hard to fall asleep and night, making it hard to fall asleep and night, making it hard to fall asleep and even harder to stay asleep. You enter a even harder to stay asleep. You enter a even harder to stay asleep. You enter a vicious cycle. Poor sleep leads to vicious cycle. Poor sleep leads to vicious cycle. Poor sleep leads to higher stress, and higher stress leads higher stress, and higher stress leads higher stress, and higher stress leads to poorer sleep. Over time, this to poorer sleep. Over time, this to poorer sleep. Over time, this imbalance wears down your mental imbalance wears down your mental imbalance wears down your mental resilience, weakens your immune system, resilience, weakens your immune system, resilience, weakens your immune system, and clouds your judgment. One of the and clouds your judgment. One of the and clouds your judgment. One of the most overlooked aspects of sleep is how most overlooked aspects of sleep is how most overlooked aspects of sleep is how it influences emotional memory. During it influences emotional memory. During it influences emotional memory. During deep sleep, particularly REM's rapid eye deep sleep, particularly REM's rapid eye deep sleep, particularly REM's rapid eye movement sleep, the brain processes movement sleep, the brain processes movement sleep, the brain processes emotional experiences from the day and emotional experiences from the day and emotional experiences from the day and files them appropriately. This helps you files them appropriately. This helps you files them appropriately. This helps you gain perspective, find meaning and gain perspective, find meaning and gain perspective, find meaning and emotionally complete the events of your emotionally complete the events of your emotionally complete the events of your life. Without adequate REM, sleep, life. Without adequate REM, sleep, life. Without adequate REM, sleep, emotional memories remain unprocessed. emotional memories remain unprocessed. emotional memories remain unprocessed. They linger, replaying your mind, often They linger, replaying your mind, often They linger, replaying your mind, often intensifying anxiety or sadness. In this intensifying anxiety or sadness. In this intensifying anxiety or sadness. In this way, sleep functions as a kind of way, sleep functions as a kind of way, sleep functions as a kind of nightly therapy, a way for the brain to nightly therapy, a way for the brain to nightly therapy, a way for the brain to clean up emotional residue and restore clean up emotional residue and restore clean up emotional residue and restore balance. In order to tap into the full balance. In order to tap into the full balance. In order to tap into the full restorative power of sleep, consistency restorative power of sleep, consistency restorative power of sleep, consistency is key. The brain and body operate on a
26:00is key. The brain and body operate on a is key. The brain and body operate on a 24-hour cycle known as the circadian 24-hour cycle known as the circadian 24-hour cycle known as the circadian rhythm. This internal clock is regulated rhythm. This internal clock is regulated rhythm. This internal clock is regulated by external cues, primarily light and by external cues, primarily light and by external cues, primarily light and darkness. When you go to bed and wake up darkness. When you go to bed and wake up darkness. When you go to bed and wake up at the same times each day, you support at the same times each day, you support at the same times each day, you support the natural rhythm of hormone release, the natural rhythm of hormone release, the natural rhythm of hormone release, temperature regulation, and metabolic temperature regulation, and metabolic temperature regulation, and metabolic function. But when your sleep schedule function. But when your sleep schedule function. But when your sleep schedule is erratic, staying up late, sleeping is erratic, staying up late, sleeping is erratic, staying up late, sleeping in, or constantly shifting your bedtime, in, or constantly shifting your bedtime, in, or constantly shifting your bedtime, your body struggles to maintain balance. your body struggles to maintain balance. your body struggles to maintain balance. This disruption can mimic the effects of This disruption can mimic the effects of This disruption can mimic the effects of jet lag, even without travel, and the jet lag, even without travel, and the jet lag, even without travel, and the brain experiences it as a kind of brain experiences it as a kind of brain experiences it as a kind of internal chaos. Good sleep hygiene internal chaos. Good sleep hygiene internal chaos. Good sleep hygiene starts well before your head hits the starts well before your head hits the starts well before your head hits the pillow. It begins in the morning. pillow. It begins in the morning. pillow. It begins in the morning. Getting natural sunlight within the Getting natural sunlight within the Getting natural sunlight within the first hour of waking helps anchor your first hour of waking helps anchor your first hour of waking helps anchor your circadian rhythm and increases circadian rhythm and increases circadian rhythm and increases alertness. Throughout the day, staying alertness. Throughout the day, staying alertness. Throughout the day, staying active and avoiding long naps helps active and avoiding long naps helps active and avoiding long naps helps build sleep pressure. The biological build sleep pressure. The biological build sleep pressure. The biological drive to sleep that increases the longer drive to sleep that increases the longer drive to sleep that increases the longer you've been awake. In the evening, you've been awake. In the evening, you've been awake. In the evening, winding down with minimal exposure to winding down with minimal exposure to winding down with minimal exposure to bright artificial light, especially from bright artificial light, especially from bright artificial light, especially from screens, tells your brain that it's time screens, tells your brain that it's time screens, tells your brain that it's time to shift into rest mode. Melatonin, the
27:00to shift into rest mode. Melatonin, the to shift into rest mode. Melatonin, the hormone responsible for making you feel hormone responsible for making you feel hormone responsible for making you feel sleepy, is highly sensitive to light. sleepy, is highly sensitive to light. sleepy, is highly sensitive to light. When you expose yourself to screens late When you expose yourself to screens late When you expose yourself to screens late at night, you delay melatonin release at night, you delay melatonin release at night, you delay melatonin release and signal to your brain that it's still and signal to your brain that it's still and signal to your brain that it's still daytime, making it harder to fall asleep daytime, making it harder to fall asleep daytime, making it harder to fall asleep and harder to get deep rest, even if you and harder to get deep rest, even if you and harder to get deep rest, even if you do. Your sleeping environment also plays do. Your sleeping environment also plays do. Your sleeping environment also plays a critical role. A cool, dark, and quiet a critical role. A cool, dark, and quiet a critical role. A cool, dark, and quiet room mimics natural sleep conditions and room mimics natural sleep conditions and room mimics natural sleep conditions and promotes deeper rest. Temperature promotes deeper rest. Temperature promotes deeper rest. Temperature matters because the body needs to cool matters because the body needs to cool matters because the body needs to cool down to initiate sleep. A warm shower down to initiate sleep. A warm shower down to initiate sleep. A warm shower before bed can help with this by causing before bed can help with this by causing before bed can help with this by causing a rebound cooling effect once you step a rebound cooling effect once you step a rebound cooling effect once you step out. Reducing noise and eliminating out. Reducing noise and eliminating out. Reducing noise and eliminating light cues. Using blackout curtains or a light cues. Using blackout curtains or a light cues. Using blackout curtains or a sleep mask also sends a strong signal to sleep mask also sends a strong signal to sleep mask also sends a strong signal to your nervous system it's time to relax, your nervous system it's time to relax, your nervous system it's time to relax, to let go, to recover. The impact of to let go, to recover. The impact of to let go, to recover. The impact of sleep is not always immediately visible. sleep is not always immediately visible. sleep is not always immediately visible. You might survive on poor sleep for a You might survive on poor sleep for a You might survive on poor sleep for a few days and still function. But over few days and still function. But over few days and still function. But over time, the deficits add up. Cognitive time, the deficits add up. Cognitive time, the deficits add up. Cognitive function declines. Memory gets foggy. function declines. Memory gets foggy. function declines. Memory gets foggy. Creativity dims. Emotional stability Creativity dims. Emotional stability Creativity dims. Emotional stability wears thin. And most importantly, your wears thin. And most importantly, your wears thin. And most importantly, your sense of self begins to fade. Without
28:00sense of self begins to fade. Without sense of self begins to fade. Without proper sleep, it becomes harder to show proper sleep, it becomes harder to show proper sleep, it becomes harder to show up as the version of yourself you want up as the version of yourself you want up as the version of yourself you want to be. You lose access to your best to be. You lose access to your best to be. You lose access to your best thinking, your clearest feelings, and thinking, your clearest feelings, and thinking, your clearest feelings, and your deepest strength. But when you your deepest strength. But when you your deepest strength. But when you prioritize sleep, everything starts to prioritize sleep, everything starts to prioritize sleep, everything starts to improve. You make better decisions. improve. You make better decisions. improve. You make better decisions. You're more emotionally flexible. You You're more emotionally flexible. You You're more emotionally flexible. You recover from setbacks faster. You have recover from setbacks faster. You have recover from setbacks faster. You have more energy to pursue what matters, more more energy to pursue what matters, more more energy to pursue what matters, more patience in your relationships, more patience in your relationships, more patience in your relationships, more clarity in your goals. The world doesn't clarity in your goals. The world doesn't clarity in your goals. The world doesn't feel as overwhelming because your brain feel as overwhelming because your brain feel as overwhelming because your brain is rested, organized, and fully online. is rested, organized, and fully online. is rested, organized, and fully online. Sleep is the foundation. It is not a Sleep is the foundation. It is not a Sleep is the foundation. It is not a luxury. It is not weakness. It is one of luxury. It is not weakness. It is one of luxury. It is not weakness. It is one of the most powerful forms of mental the most powerful forms of mental the most powerful forms of mental training available. It resets your training available. It resets your training available. It resets your nervous system, boosts your resilience, nervous system, boosts your resilience, nervous system, boosts your resilience, sharpens your focus, and builds sharpens your focus, and builds sharpens your focus, and builds emotional durability. If you want to be emotional durability. If you want to be emotional durability. If you want to be mentally strong, emotionally stable, and mentally strong, emotionally stable, and mentally strong, emotionally stable, and fully present in your life, you must fully present in your life, you must fully present in your life, you must protect your sleep like your life protect your sleep like your life protect your sleep like your life depends on it. Because in many ways, it depends on it. Because in many ways, it depends on it. Because in many ways, it does. So, make the commitment. Set a does. So, make the commitment. Set a does. So, make the commitment. Set a consistent bedtime. Wake up with consistent bedtime. Wake up with consistent bedtime. Wake up with purpose. Get light in the morning. Dim purpose. Get light in the morning. Dim
29:00purpose. Get light in the morning. Dim the lights at night. Put away the phone. the lights at night. Put away the phone. the lights at night. Put away the phone. Create an environment of calm and Create an environment of calm and Create an environment of calm and stillness. Let sleep become your stillness. Let sleep become your stillness. Let sleep become your superpower, your secret weapon, your superpower, your secret weapon, your superpower, your secret weapon, your non-negotiable ritual. Because when you non-negotiable ritual. Because when you non-negotiable ritual. Because when you sleep well, you don't just wake up sleep well, you don't just wake up sleep well, you don't just wake up rested. You wake up restored, ready to rested. You wake up restored, ready to rested. You wake up restored, ready to lead, to love, and to live with clarity lead, to love, and to live with clarity lead, to love, and to live with clarity and strength. The way you speak to and strength. The way you speak to and strength. The way you speak to yourself matters more than most people yourself matters more than most people yourself matters more than most people realize. Your inner dialogue, the realize. Your inner dialogue, the realize. Your inner dialogue, the constant stream of thoughts running constant stream of thoughts running constant stream of thoughts running through your mind, is not just through your mind, is not just through your mind, is not just background noise. It is instruction. It background noise. It is instruction. It background noise. It is instruction. It is reinforcement. It is the programming is reinforcement. It is the programming is reinforcement. It is the programming language that shapes your beliefs, your language that shapes your beliefs, your language that shapes your beliefs, your actions, your emotional patterns, and actions, your emotional patterns, and actions, your emotional patterns, and your identity. Mental health does not your identity. Mental health does not your identity. Mental health does not only depend on external circumstances. only depend on external circumstances. only depend on external circumstances. It also depends deeply on the It also depends deeply on the It also depends deeply on the relationship you have with your own relationship you have with your own relationship you have with your own mind. If that relationship is rooted in mind. If that relationship is rooted in mind. If that relationship is rooted in criticism, shame, and self-doubt, then criticism, shame, and self-doubt, then criticism, shame, and self-doubt, then even the best external conditions can even the best external conditions can even the best external conditions can feel hollow. But when your inner voice feel hollow. But when your inner voice feel hollow. But when your inner voice is guided by awareness, compassion, and is guided by awareness, compassion, and is guided by awareness, compassion, and strength, even during adversity, you strength, even during adversity, you strength, even during adversity, you begin to develop unshakable mental begin to develop unshakable mental begin to develop unshakable mental stability. Your brain is a prediction stability. Your brain is a prediction stability. Your brain is a prediction machine. It constantly takes input what
30:00machine. It constantly takes input what machine. It constantly takes input what you hear, feel, and think and builds you hear, feel, and think and builds you hear, feel, and think and builds models about what to expect next. The models about what to expect next. The models about what to expect next. The more you repeat a certain kind of more you repeat a certain kind of more you repeat a certain kind of self-talk, the more deeply it becomes self-talk, the more deeply it becomes self-talk, the more deeply it becomes wired into your neural circuits. If wired into your neural circuits. If wired into your neural circuits. If you're constantly telling yourself, "I'm you're constantly telling yourself, "I'm you're constantly telling yourself, "I'm not good enough. I can't handle this." not good enough. I can't handle this." not good enough. I can't handle this." Or, "Things never work out for me." Then Or, "Things never work out for me." Then Or, "Things never work out for me." Then your brain starts scanning for evidence your brain starts scanning for evidence your brain starts scanning for evidence to confirm that narrative. It becomes to confirm that narrative. It becomes to confirm that narrative. It becomes your filter, not because it's true, but your filter, not because it's true, but your filter, not because it's true, but because it's familiar. And what's because it's familiar. And what's because it's familiar. And what's familiar becomes default. This is why familiar becomes default. This is why familiar becomes default. This is why negative self talk is so dangerous. It negative self talk is so dangerous. It negative self talk is so dangerous. It doesn't just express how you feel in the doesn't just express how you feel in the doesn't just express how you feel in the moment. It trains your brain to believe moment. It trains your brain to believe moment. It trains your brain to believe in limitation. But this also means that in limitation. But this also means that in limitation. But this also means that self-t talk is a powerful tool of self-t talk is a powerful tool of self-t talk is a powerful tool of transformation. You can use it to transformation. You can use it to transformation. You can use it to reprogram your perception, rebuild your reprogram your perception, rebuild your reprogram your perception, rebuild your confidence, and reshape your emotional confidence, and reshape your emotional confidence, and reshape your emotional responses. The first step is awareness. responses. The first step is awareness. responses. The first step is awareness. Most people are not even conscious of Most people are not even conscious of Most people are not even conscious of their inner dialogue. They don't hear their inner dialogue. They don't hear their inner dialogue. They don't hear the harsh judgments or fearful thoughts. the harsh judgments or fearful thoughts. the harsh judgments or fearful thoughts. They just feel the emotional They just feel the emotional They just feel the emotional consequences. Becoming aware of yourself consequences. Becoming aware of yourself consequences. Becoming aware of yourself talk is like switching on a light in a
31:00talk is like switching on a light in a talk is like switching on a light in a dark room. You start to notice the dark room. You start to notice the dark room. You start to notice the pattern when you make a mistake. What do pattern when you make a mistake. What do pattern when you make a mistake. What do you say to yourself? When you feel you say to yourself? When you feel you say to yourself? When you feel anxious, how do you interpret it? anxious, how do you interpret it? anxious, how do you interpret it? When you think about your goals, do you When you think about your goals, do you When you think about your goals, do you encourage yourself or doubt yourself? encourage yourself or doubt yourself? encourage yourself or doubt yourself? Once you notice these patterns, you can Once you notice these patterns, you can Once you notice these patterns, you can begin to challenge and shift them. This begin to challenge and shift them. This begin to challenge and shift them. This doesn't mean lying to yourself or doesn't mean lying to yourself or doesn't mean lying to yourself or pretending everything is perfect. It pretending everything is perfect. It pretending everything is perfect. It means speaking to yourself the way you means speaking to yourself the way you means speaking to yourself the way you would speak to someone you love. would speak to someone you love. would speak to someone you love. Honestly, but with kindness. When you Honestly, but with kindness. When you Honestly, but with kindness. When you fail, instead of saying, "I'm such a fail, instead of saying, "I'm such a fail, instead of saying, "I'm such a failure." You say, "That didn't go as failure." You say, "That didn't go as failure." You say, "That didn't go as planned, but I can learn from it." When planned, but I can learn from it." When planned, but I can learn from it." When you feel overwhelmed instead of you feel overwhelmed instead of you feel overwhelmed instead of thinking, "I can't do this." You remind thinking, "I can't do this." You remind thinking, "I can't do this." You remind yourself, "This is hard, but I've yourself, "This is hard, but I've yourself, "This is hard, but I've handled hard things before." These handled hard things before." These handled hard things before." These shifts may seem small, but they are shifts may seem small, but they are shifts may seem small, but they are neurologically powerful. Each time you neurologically powerful. Each time you neurologically powerful. Each time you speak to yourself with courage and speak to yourself with courage and speak to yourself with courage and compassion, you reinforce new pathways compassion, you reinforce new pathways compassion, you reinforce new pathways in the brain. Over time, those pathways in the brain. Over time, those pathways in the brain. Over time, those pathways become your new default. Another become your new default. Another become your new default. Another effective tool to refine your self-talk effective tool to refine your self-talk effective tool to refine your self-talk is journaling. Writing down your is journaling. Writing down your is journaling. Writing down your thoughts helps you externalize them,
32:00thoughts helps you externalize them, thoughts helps you externalize them, examine them, and take control over examine them, and take control over examine them, and take control over them. You begin to see which beliefs are them. You begin to see which beliefs are them. You begin to see which beliefs are empowering and which ones are holding empowering and which ones are holding empowering and which ones are holding you back. The act of writing also slows you back. The act of writing also slows you back. The act of writing also slows your thinking and allows the logical your thinking and allows the logical your thinking and allows the logical part of your brain, the preffrontal part of your brain, the preffrontal part of your brain, the preffrontal cortex, to engage more fully. You gain cortex, to engage more fully. You gain cortex, to engage more fully. You gain distance from your emotions and clarity distance from your emotions and clarity distance from your emotions and clarity about your patterns. You can even about your patterns. You can even about your patterns. You can even rewrite negative beliefs on paper, rewrite negative beliefs on paper, rewrite negative beliefs on paper, crafting new supportive narratives that crafting new supportive narratives that crafting new supportive narratives that align with who you want to become. This align with who you want to become. This align with who you want to become. This is not about wishful thinking. It's is not about wishful thinking. It's is not about wishful thinking. It's about neurological training. Your words about neurological training. Your words about neurological training. Your words create the framework within which your create the framework within which your create the framework within which your brain operates. Mindfulness also plays a brain operates. Mindfulness also plays a brain operates. Mindfulness also plays a major role. When you practice being major role. When you practice being major role. When you practice being present, whether through meditation, present, whether through meditation, present, whether through meditation, breath work, or simply pausing to breath work, or simply pausing to breath work, or simply pausing to observe your thoughts, you start to observe your thoughts, you start to observe your thoughts, you start to create space between stimulus and create space between stimulus and create space between stimulus and response. That space is freedom. You are response. That space is freedom. You are response. That space is freedom. You are no longer hijacked by every passing no longer hijacked by every passing no longer hijacked by every passing emotion or thought. You realize that you emotion or thought. You realize that you emotion or thought. You realize that you are not your thoughts. You are the are not your thoughts. You are the are not your thoughts. You are the observer, the thinker behind the observer, the thinker behind the observer, the thinker behind the thought. And from that place of thought. And from that place of thought. And from that place of awareness, you gain the ability to awareness, you gain the ability to awareness, you gain the ability to choose your internal dialogue rather choose your internal dialogue rather choose your internal dialogue rather than being ruled by it. That choice is
33:00than being ruled by it. That choice is than being ruled by it. That choice is the foundation of mental strength. The the foundation of mental strength. The the foundation of mental strength. The words you say to yourself in difficult words you say to yourself in difficult words you say to yourself in difficult moments carry enormous weight. They can moments carry enormous weight. They can moments carry enormous weight. They can be the difference between spiraling into be the difference between spiraling into be the difference between spiraling into despair and rising with renewed focus. despair and rising with renewed focus. despair and rising with renewed focus. When you start building the habit of When you start building the habit of When you start building the habit of supportive self-talk, you stop waiting supportive self-talk, you stop waiting supportive self-talk, you stop waiting for others to validate you. You stop for others to validate you. You stop for others to validate you. You stop needing permission to believe in needing permission to believe in needing permission to believe in yourself. You become your own coach, yourself. You become your own coach, yourself. You become your own coach, your own source of motivation, your own your own source of motivation, your own your own source of motivation, your own calm in the storm. And this inner calm in the storm. And this inner calm in the storm. And this inner strength becomes unshakable over time. strength becomes unshakable over time. strength becomes unshakable over time. Not because life gets easier, but Not because life gets easier, but Not because life gets easier, but because your mind becomes more stable, because your mind becomes more stable, because your mind becomes more stable, more grounded, and more equipped to more grounded, and more equipped to more grounded, and more equipped to handle whatever life throws at you. It's handle whatever life throws at you. It's handle whatever life throws at you. It's also important to understand that also important to understand that also important to understand that positive self talk isn't about always positive self talk isn't about always positive self talk isn't about always feeling happy or avoiding hard truths. feeling happy or avoiding hard truths. feeling happy or avoiding hard truths. It's about emotional honesty paired with It's about emotional honesty paired with It's about emotional honesty paired with emotional resilience. It's about emotional resilience. It's about emotional resilience. It's about acknowledging pain without letting it acknowledging pain without letting it acknowledging pain without letting it define you. It's about holding space for define you. It's about holding space for define you. It's about holding space for fear while choosing to act with courage. fear while choosing to act with courage. fear while choosing to act with courage. Your inner dialogue is the tone you set Your inner dialogue is the tone you set Your inner dialogue is the tone you set for your life. It's the music that plays for your life. It's the music that plays for your life. It's the music that plays beneath every action, every decision, beneath every action, every decision, beneath every action, every decision, every response. And you have the power
34:00every response. And you have the power every response. And you have the power to change that music at any time. Your to change that music at any time. Your to change that music at any time. Your brain listens to everything you say. So brain listens to everything you say. So brain listens to everything you say. So speak with intention. Speak with speak with intention. Speak with speak with intention. Speak with clarity. Speak with hope. The story you clarity. Speak with hope. The story you clarity. Speak with hope. The story you tell yourself becomes the life you live. tell yourself becomes the life you live. tell yourself becomes the life you live. And no matter where you've been, you can And no matter where you've been, you can And no matter where you've been, you can begin rewriting that story today. You begin rewriting that story today. You begin rewriting that story today. You are not broken. You are not weak. You are not broken. You are not weak. You are not broken. You are not weak. You are not your past. You are a work in are not your past. You are a work in are not your past. You are a work in progress, a mind in motion. A soul that progress, a mind in motion. A soul that progress, a mind in motion. A soul that is learning to heal, to grow, and to is learning to heal, to grow, and to is learning to heal, to grow, and to thrive. The path to mental health is not thrive. The path to mental health is not thrive. The path to mental health is not linear. And it's not always easy. But it linear. And it's not always easy. But it linear. And it's not always easy. But it becomes much more navigable when your becomes much more navigable when your becomes much more navigable when your inner voice becomes your ally instead of inner voice becomes your ally instead of inner voice becomes your ally instead of your enemy. And that change begins with your enemy. And that change begins with your enemy. And that change begins with awareness, then with repetition, then awareness, then with repetition, then awareness, then with repetition, then with belief. Slowly but surely, you with belief. Slowly but surely, you with belief. Slowly but surely, you become the kind of person who encourages become the kind of person who encourages become the kind of person who encourages themselves through adversity, who stands themselves through adversity, who stands themselves through adversity, who stands firm in their identity, who refuses to firm in their identity, who refuses to firm in their identity, who refuses to let fear narrate their life. You build a let fear narrate their life. You build a let fear narrate their life. You build a new language within and that language new language within and that language new language within and that language becomes your strength, your guide and becomes your strength, your guide and becomes your strength, your guide and your truth.