00:00[Music] [Music] what's crackin people it should make us what's crackin people it should make us what's crackin people it should make us ante a K and alpha wingman representing ante a K and alpha wingman representing ante a K and alpha wingman representing high level technicians operating high level technicians operating high level technicians operating globally and beyond so today I am doing
01:00globally and beyond so today I am doing globally and beyond so today I am doing this sort of special edition of the cold this sort of special edition of the cold this sort of special edition of the cold shower sessions and usually I would have shower sessions and usually I would have shower sessions and usually I would have a guest with me you know and we dialogue a guest with me you know and we dialogue a guest with me you know and we dialogue back and forth discussing certain topics back and forth discussing certain topics back and forth discussing certain topics covering sort of the interpersonal covering sort of the interpersonal covering sort of the interpersonal dynamics between men and women in the dynamics between men and women in the dynamics between men and women in the context of the modern dating mating context of the modern dating mating context of the modern dating mating relationship space and today I am just relationship space and today I am just relationship space and today I am just going to play off of the clip that I going to play off of the clip that I going to play off of the clip that I presented at the beginning of this presented at the beginning of this presented at the beginning of this particular podcast and that clip comes particular podcast and that clip comes particular podcast and that clip comes from the podcast still processing which from the podcast still processing which from the podcast still processing which is hosted by jenna wertham and Wesley is hosted by jenna wertham and Wesley is hosted by jenna wertham and Wesley Morris this is from an episode from 2018 Morris this is from an episode from 2018 Morris this is from an episode from 2018 and it's overall in a review of the and it's overall in a review of the and it's overall in a review of the movie Black Panther when they was first movie Black Panther when they was first movie Black Panther when they was first released in February of 2018 and their
02:00released in February of 2018 and their released in February of 2018 and their guest for that particular episode was guest for that particular episode was guest for that particular episode was Tommy hasty Coates who was responsible Tommy hasty Coates who was responsible Tommy hasty Coates who was responsible for the more modern rendition of the for the more modern rendition of the for the more modern rendition of the black panther series in terms of the black panther series in terms of the black panther series in terms of the comic book and the comic book and the comic book and the for the bt story but beyond that the for the bt story but beyond that the for the bt story but beyond that the reason why I used that particular clip reason why I used that particular clip reason why I used that particular clip in the opening of this particular in the opening of this particular in the opening of this particular discussion it's because it speaks to a discussion it's because it speaks to a discussion it's because it speaks to a current sort of mumbling of a discussion current sort of mumbling of a discussion current sort of mumbling of a discussion that's being passed around and that is that's being passed around and that is that's being passed around and that is why is it that only black men are seen why is it that only black men are seen why is it that only black men are seen as the ones using gate and why why don't as the ones using gate and why why don't as the ones using gate and why why don't other cultures use what is quote-unquote other cultures use what is quote-unquote other cultures use what is quote-unquote gain to communicate interest to women gain to communicate interest to women gain to communicate interest to women and the first response that I had to and the first response that I had to and the first response that I had to that is of course it's only black man that is of course it's only black man that is of course it's only black man they use gain because yeah black men and
03:00they use gain because yeah black men and they use gain because yeah black men and Bennett game just like bebop music Bennett game just like bebop music Bennett game just like bebop music I prefer enough that used to term jazz I prefer enough that used to term jazz I prefer enough that used to term jazz that some of the conversation bebop that some of the conversation bebop that some of the conversation bebop music R&B soul blues we are the music R&B soul blues we are the music R&B soul blues we are the originators of the griot we originated originators of the griot we originated originators of the griot we originated using a form of communication in order using a form of communication in order using a form of communication in order to describe an action to describe an to describe an action to describe an to describe an action to describe an activity to use stories to communicate activity to use stories to communicate activity to use stories to communicate interest and to communicate intent the interest and to communicate intent the interest and to communicate intent the original perfectors of the parable so original perfectors of the parable so original perfectors of the parable so yes absolutely like men use game whereas yes absolutely like men use game whereas yes absolutely like men use game whereas other men do not it's a part of our other men do not it's a part of our other men do not it's a part of our culture it's a part of our ism it's a culture it's a part of our ism it's a culture it's a part of our ism it's a part of how we properly communicate our part of how we properly communicate our part of how we properly communicate our potential romantic interest in someone potential romantic interest in someone potential romantic interest in someone in our own unique style flavor and in our own unique style flavor and in our own unique style flavor and cadence so when a person especially and cadence so when a person especially and cadence so when a person especially and I gotta do it unfortunately when a
04:00I gotta do it unfortunately when a I gotta do it unfortunately when a person who would be identified as person who would be identified as person who would be identified as cortical non selects and/or an educated cortical non selects and/or an educated cortical non selects and/or an educated lane tips to qualify the black man's use lane tips to qualify the black man's use lane tips to qualify the black man's use of quote unquote game as an indictment of quote unquote game as an indictment of quote unquote game as an indictment or something to critique or to be or something to critique or to be or something to critique or to be critical of that shows their lack of critical of that shows their lack of critical of that shows their lack of depth of perspective when talking about depth of perspective when talking about depth of perspective when talking about certain days and really reinforces the certain days and really reinforces the certain days and really reinforces the need to stay in one's own lane or the need to stay in one's own lane or the need to stay in one's own lane or the need to have a more holistic need to have a more holistic need to have a more holistic conversation about a subject and include conversation about a subject and include conversation about a subject and include those who are participants in said those who are participants in said those who are participants in said laying that you're attempting to swerve laying that you're attempting to swerve laying that you're attempting to swerve into aka into aka into aka black men who discussed the modern black men who discussed the modern black men who discussed the modern dating relationship and mating scene dating relationship and mating scene dating relationship and mating scene this is why there are multiple channels
05:00this is why there are multiple channels this is why there are multiple channels that discuss different things and why that discuss different things and why that discuss different things and why certain people have a level of certain people have a level of certain people have a level of competency in certain topics like competency in certain topics like competency in certain topics like technology or finance or history or technology or finance or history or technology or finance or history or cuisine you know culinary arts or even cuisine you know culinary arts or even cuisine you know culinary arts or even traveling to foreign countries to get traveling to foreign countries to get traveling to foreign countries to get transactional sex in any case part of transactional sex in any case part of transactional sex in any case part of the issue and part of the reason why the the issue and part of the reason why the the issue and part of the reason why the term quote-unquote gain and the whole term quote-unquote gain and the whole term quote-unquote gain and the whole concept of gain is cast in a negative concept of gain is cast in a negative concept of gain is cast in a negative context is because those who have been context is because those who have been context is because those who have been trying to copy the strategies copy the trying to copy the strategies copy the trying to copy the strategies copy the rhythm the cadence the pace and the rhythm the cadence the pace and the rhythm the cadence the pace and the methodology behind those who originated methodology behind those who originated methodology behind those who originated gain or ISM or what it has evolved into gain or ISM or what it has evolved into gain or ISM or what it has evolved into over time because it didn't didn't over time because it didn't didn't over time because it didn't didn't really start out with the labor or gang
06:00really start out with the labor or gang really start out with the labor or gang so if we go back in history just a so if we go back in history just a so if we go back in history just a little bit we we know that we had little bit we we know that we had little bit we we know that we had something that was known as sweet talk something that was known as sweet talk something that was known as sweet talk then it was involved into jive talk then then it was involved into jive talk then then it was involved into jive talk then it evolved into rapping to a woman gang it evolved into rapping to a woman gang it evolved into rapping to a woman gang was the natural progression as this was the natural progression as this was the natural progression as this particular cultural tool or this particular cultural tool or this particular cultural tool or this cultural legacy had to be Rhian cryptid cultural legacy had to be Rhian cryptid cultural legacy had to be Rhian cryptid because other cultures primarily those because other cultures primarily those because other cultures primarily those of the dominant society who looked to of the dominant society who looked to of the dominant society who looked to culturally appropriate whatever they culturally appropriate whatever they culturally appropriate whatever they deem as something that they can deem as something that they can deem as something that they can commodify or something that gives the commodify or something that gives the commodify or something that gives the them something to aspire to culturally them something to aspire to culturally them something to aspire to culturally and something that they can use to and something that they can use to and something that they can use to negotiate a sense of purpose and a sense negotiate a sense of purpose and a sense negotiate a sense of purpose and a sense of negotiating the human experience if of negotiating the human experience if of negotiating the human experience if they see that it's something that is they see that it's something that is they see that it's something that is valuable or useful and other cultures valuable or useful and other cultures valuable or useful and other cultures and this is only compounded by the quote
07:00and this is only compounded by the quote and this is only compounded by the quote unquote Carlton or the quote unquote unquote Carlton or the quote unquote unquote Carlton or the quote unquote educated lane when they attempt to educated lane when they attempt to educated lane when they attempt to identify certain signature aspects of identify certain signature aspects of identify certain signature aspects of would be black American culture and would be black American culture and would be black American culture and analyze its usage and look at it from analyze its usage and look at it from analyze its usage and look at it from the sterilized perspective of the ruling the sterilized perspective of the ruling the sterilized perspective of the ruling class because remember when we look at class because remember when we look at class because remember when we look at the class system we'll use the master the class system we'll use the master the class system we'll use the master teacher bgs is octane model when we use teacher bgs is octane model when we use teacher bgs is octane model when we use that scale and we talk about a Carlton that scale and we talk about a Carlton that scale and we talk about a Carlton or an educated lane that is usually or an educated lane that is usually or an educated lane that is usually identified with the either 89 or 92 identified with the either 89 or 92 identified with the either 89 or 92 octane space remember the three octane space remember the three octane space remember the three components of that class just primarily components of that class just primarily components of that class just primarily just using it in a general sense just using it in a general sense just using it in a general sense obviously there's exceptions to the rule obviously there's exceptions to the rule obviously there's exceptions to the rule and there's range within this but the
08:00and there's range within this but the and there's range within this but the three identifiers of that space of the three identifiers of that space of the three identifiers of that space of the 92 octane primarily the Carlton's or the 92 octane primarily the Carlton's or the 92 octane primarily the Carlton's or the educated ring would be the language educated ring would be the language educated ring would be the language using the language of the ruling class using the language of the ruling class using the language of the ruling class wearing the uniform of the ruling class wearing the uniform of the ruling class wearing the uniform of the ruling class which is called corporate culture and which is called corporate culture and which is called corporate culture and wearing the mask of the corporate wearing the mask of the corporate wearing the mask of the corporate culture or the ruling class and so if culture or the ruling class and so if culture or the ruling class and so if that's the perspective of your depth of that's the perspective of your depth of that's the perspective of your depth of perception your way of perceiving things perception your way of perceiving things perception your way of perceiving things you perceive things from the perspective you perceive things from the perspective you perceive things from the perspective of the ruling class of the cultural of the ruling class of the cultural of the ruling class of the cultural appropriators who did not originate say appropriators who did not originate say appropriators who did not originate say a culture so your indictment of those a culture so your indictment of those a culture so your indictment of those elements of the culture really speak to elements of the culture really speak to elements of the culture really speak to how disconnected you are and that's why how disconnected you are and that's why how disconnected you are and that's why the quote/unquote educated lane or the the quote/unquote educated lane or the the quote/unquote educated lane or the Colton's get such a bad rap Colton's get such a bad rap Colton's get such a bad rap because they don't know really what it because they don't know really what it because they don't know really what it is to have a more robust and nuanced
09:00is to have a more robust and nuanced is to have a more robust and nuanced cultural experience because they have cultural experience because they have cultural experience because they have been cut off in order to be acceptable been cut off in order to be acceptable been cut off in order to be acceptable to the ruling class so they're cut off to the ruling class so they're cut off to the ruling class so they're cut off from the true depth of perspective in from the true depth of perspective in from the true depth of perspective in the context of certain elements of the the context of certain elements of the the context of certain elements of the culture like gain or like the music or culture like gain or like the music or culture like gain or like the music or like the way in which certain members of like the way in which certain members of like the way in which certain members of a culture communicate themselves and a culture communicate themselves and a culture communicate themselves and their intentions with the use of media their intentions with the use of media their intentions with the use of media art music language and so just like what art music language and so just like what art music language and so just like what happened with jazz just like what happened with jazz just like what happened with jazz just like what happened with army just like what happened with army just like what happened with army just like what happened with rap or hip-hop what we now happened with rap or hip-hop what we now happened with rap or hip-hop what we now have is a modern watered-down have is a modern watered-down have is a modern watered-down bastardized commercialized version of it
10:00bastardized commercialized version of it bastardized commercialized version of it and so that is what the quote/unquote and so that is what the quote/unquote and so that is what the quote/unquote educated lame or the you know the the educated lame or the you know the the educated lame or the you know the the ruling class or whomever their ruling class or whomever their ruling class or whomever their representatives are indicted they're representatives are indicted they're representatives are indicted they're casting an indictment on the culturally casting an indictment on the culturally casting an indictment on the culturally appropriated version of the original you appropriated version of the original you appropriated version of the original you see they're casting an indictment on a see they're casting an indictment on a see they're casting an indictment on a copy and that's disingenuous and that's copy and that's disingenuous and that's copy and that's disingenuous and that's intellectually lazy so instead of intellectually lazy so instead of intellectually lazy so instead of getting the real source of why black man getting the real source of why black man getting the real source of why black man use gain effective okay let's be clear use gain effective okay let's be clear use gain effective okay let's be clear there are many channels of man who teach there are many channels of man who teach there are many channels of man who teach the methods and the techniques and the the methods and the techniques and the the methods and the techniques and the cadence of how to express yourself how cadence of how to express yourself how cadence of how to express yourself how to express your romantic intentions to a to express your romantic intentions to a to express your romantic intentions to a potential partner aka game which now potential partner aka game which now potential partner aka game which now game has been appropriated a game has game has been appropriated a game has game has been appropriated a game has been watered down gate that the usage of
11:00been watered down gate that the usage of been watered down gate that the usage of game has been attempted to be commodify game has been attempted to be commodify game has been attempted to be commodify and so it's been misconstrued it has and so it's been misconstrued it has and so it's been misconstrued it has been watered down one so that the people been watered down one so that the people been watered down one so that the people who did not originate it can understand who did not originate it can understand who did not originate it can understand how it works and to the people who did how it works and to the people who did how it works and to the people who did not originate it can feed it into not originate it can feed it into not originate it can feed it into bite-sized digestible portions to the bite-sized digestible portions to the bite-sized digestible portions to the class of the people who did not even class of the people who did not even class of the people who did not even originate the game in the first place originate the game in the first place originate the game in the first place just like with all of the other cultural just like with all of the other cultural just like with all of the other cultural expressions throughout history and so expressions throughout history and so expressions throughout history and so for a person who claims to represent a for a person who claims to represent a for a person who claims to represent a particular culture to look at an element particular culture to look at an element particular culture to look at an element of that culture and to past a would-be of that culture and to past a would-be of that culture and to past a would-be indictment or a negative critique on it indictment or a negative critique on it indictment or a negative critique on it without giving it the true observation without giving it the true observation without giving it the true observation with a depth of perspective that it
12:00with a depth of perspective that it with a depth of perspective that it deserves shows both how unqualified the deserves shows both how unqualified the deserves shows both how unqualified the would-be speaker is to even discuss the would-be speaker is to even discuss the would-be speaker is to even discuss the topic but it also shows this it shows topic but it also shows this it shows topic but it also shows this it shows the need to re-encrypt it shows the need the need to re-encrypt it shows the need the need to re-encrypt it shows the need to make something fresh which is a to make something fresh which is a to make something fresh which is a central aspect an element of our culture central aspect an element of our culture central aspect an element of our culture and let me be clear when I say R I'm and let me be clear when I say R I'm and let me be clear when I say R I'm talking about black America mint talking about black America mint talking about black America mint original black American myth original black American myth original black American myth foundational black American myth foundational black American myth foundational black American myth descendants of American slavery descendants of American slavery descendants of American slavery however you want to ascribe the cultural however you want to ascribe the cultural however you want to ascribe the cultural representation the originators of sad representation the originators of sad representation the originators of sad games your bridge inators of ism the games your bridge inators of ism the games your bridge inators of ism the originators of rapping the originating originators of rapping the originating originators of rapping the originating originators of the jive the originators originators of the jive the originators originators of the jive the originators of sweet talk once again the time has of sweet talk once again the time has of sweet talk once again the time has come to evolve come to evolve come to evolve that's what 2020 is all about right that's what 2020 is all about right that's what 2020 is all about right we're evolving our tools we are evolving we're evolving our tools we are evolving we're evolving our tools we are evolving our elements we're circling back to our
13:00our elements we're circling back to our our elements we're circling back to our core source of who we really are and core source of who we really are and core source of who we really are and that is people of variety the people of that is people of variety the people of that is people of variety the people of improvisational music the people of improvisational music the people of improvisational music the people of battle rap the people of spin mouth the battle rap the people of spin mouth the battle rap the people of spin mouth the dome and that's really what game is game dome and that's really what game is game dome and that's really what game is game is not necessarily is not necessarily is not necessarily a bunch of canned lines rehearsed lines a bunch of canned lines rehearsed lines a bunch of canned lines rehearsed lines tired corny worn-out you know repeated tired corny worn-out you know repeated tired corny worn-out you know repeated statements that's the colonized version statements that's the colonized version statements that's the colonized version of game of game of game that's why game sucks but that's why we that's why game sucks but that's why we that's why game sucks but that's why we are here that's why we're here to are here that's why we're here to are here that's why we're here to refresh it and to make things new so I refresh it and to make things new so I refresh it and to make things new so I want to issue this particular challenge want to issue this particular challenge want to issue this particular challenge the image on your screen that you've the image on your screen that you've the image on your screen that you've been seeing is the image of an been seeing is the image of an been seeing is the image of an attractive young woman and this will attractive young woman and this will attractive young woman and this will separate the real from the fake when we separate the real from the fake when we separate the real from the fake when we talk about the mating dating and talk about the mating dating and talk about the mating dating and relating the scene it's all about how do
14:00relating the scene it's all about how do relating the scene it's all about how do you make this connection happen and you make this connection happen and you make this connection happen and since we're talking about game which I since we're talking about game which I since we're talking about game which I like to call tech or technique or like to call tech or technique or like to call tech or technique or technology since we're talking about technology since we're talking about technology since we're talking about game I pose this question to the game I pose this question to the game I pose this question to the listener male listener obviously if listener male listener obviously if listener male listener obviously if you're walking down the street and this you're walking down the street and this you're walking down the street and this young lady happens to approach you just young lady happens to approach you just young lady happens to approach you just take a look at her let me know either in take a look at her let me know either in take a look at her let me know either in the comments down below or in a response the comments down below or in a response the comments down below or in a response video how you would approach this young video how you would approach this young video how you would approach this young lady that's my challenge to you this is lady that's my challenge to you this is lady that's my challenge to you this is so improved time how would you approach so improved time how would you approach so improved time how would you approach the young lady in the picture okay I'm the young lady in the picture okay I'm the young lady in the picture okay I'm not gonna tell you how to even I you not gonna tell you how to even I you not gonna tell you how to even I you know what you're looking at I'm not know what you're looking at I'm not know what you're looking at I'm not going to describe to you what's going to describe to you what's going to describe to you what's happening on the YouTube side I'm gonna happening on the YouTube side I'm gonna happening on the YouTube side I'm gonna do a breakdown on the patreon side do a breakdown on the patreon side do a breakdown on the patreon side because as the OGIS always say the game because as the OGIS always say the game because as the OGIS always say the game is not to be told it's to be sold and is not to be told it's to be sold and is not to be told it's to be sold and I'm talking about the real game you can
15:00I'm talking about the real game you can I'm talking about the real game you can tell people about the fake game the tell people about the fake game the tell people about the fake game the water down the canned line the corny water down the canned line the corny water down the canned line the corny [ __ ] on this side you can you can get a [ __ ] on this side you can you can get a [ __ ] on this side you can you can get a [ __ ] away the real stuff we got to pay [ __ ] away the real stuff we got to pay [ __ ] away the real stuff we got to pay for that and just because I'm feeling for that and just because I'm feeling for that and just because I'm feeling generous I'll give people a hint all generous I'll give people a hint all generous I'll give people a hint all right I did a webinar with the field right I did a webinar with the field right I did a webinar with the field master Rahm will shout out to Ron will master Rahm will shout out to Ron will master Rahm will shout out to Ron will the field master go ahead and check out the field master go ahead and check out the field master go ahead and check out is his channel I did a um a webinar with is his channel I did a um a webinar with is his channel I did a um a webinar with him discussing what I call the K code or him discussing what I call the K code or him discussing what I call the K code or the chaos code or the chaos code or the chaos code or the elements of how women speak and how the elements of how women speak and how the elements of how women speak and how as a man you can effectively put as a man you can effectively put as a man you can effectively put together those elements in order to together those elements in order to together those elements in order to approach almost any woman approach almost any woman approach almost any woman holler at wrong wheels to get a copy or holler at wrong wheels to get a copy or holler at wrong wheels to get a copy or get your access of that webinar but if I get your access of that webinar but if I get your access of that webinar but if I get enough responses if I get something get enough responses if I get something get enough responses if I get something that is tangible enough to post my
16:00that is tangible enough to post my that is tangible enough to post my patreon responds to I will go ahead and patreon responds to I will go ahead and patreon responds to I will go ahead and post the patreon response to the YouTube post the patreon response to the YouTube post the patreon response to the YouTube side that is my challenge do with it side that is my challenge do with it side that is my challenge do with it what you will but as always this is your what you will but as always this is your what you will but as always this is your man cousin T aka the Alpha wingman man cousin T aka the Alpha wingman man cousin T aka the Alpha wingman saying stay sharp and mission focused saying stay sharp and mission focused saying stay sharp and mission focused later later later [Music] [Music] you